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  • Once again- thanks all for posting!!! Had a great weekend- went to Bath for the day- had a really good family day out, which was really nice. We have promised we will try to do this every weekend (when we are both off on saturdays!) But the best suprise came on saturday night- hubbys son & mum come next week for a coupe of weeks- so he has treated me & his mum to champagne afternoon tea at the dorchester, tickets to see les mis & a stay at a posh hotel over night- cant believe such a change has occured! I have 20 pounds left to pay off my loan- he gave me the 500 pounds but i was overdrawn at the time so some of that went to pay the overdraft & then there was lots of birthdays etc & this week- on friday when i get paid i will send that cheque off to pay the last loan. Never thought i would be doing that a few months ago!
    Now im debt free i want to be fat free too!
  • poppyjay
    poppyjay Posts: 460 Forumite
    well done glad your alot happier now have you found now your less stressed about things and husbands standing up for you you have bonded more with your child.
  • angelavdavis
    angelavdavis Posts: 4,714 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Didn't get a chance to check out your post last week.

    Wow what a difference in you HM!!! You should be truly proud!

    It so great to read you feel so empowered now and are getting the respect you deserve.

    I hope all your dreams come true - you deserve it!
    :D Thanks to MSE, I am mortgage free!:D
  • chevalier
    chevalier Posts: 7,937 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Glad to hear about the up turn in your relationship HM. I hope that it continues.
    chev
    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
  • smudgemanc26
    smudgemanc26 Posts: 477 Forumite
    Hi HM

    So glad you've posted kept checking like everyone else to see if you was ok and im glad that you are and your getting things sorted with your OH.

    Really pleased to hear your OH is a changed man and you have had the courage to stand up to him and tell him how you felt. Bet its a weight off your mind now you have everything out in the open and your BOTH working to gets things sorted out together.

    Glad to hear things are looking up, well done on sorting out your debts. Best of luck Jen x
    LBM - April 2007
    Claimed back my bank charges from Natwest - £1196
    Halifax Credit Card Claiming £467.35 Rec £467.35!/Capital One Card Claiming - £523.92/Barclaycard Claiming - £403.58 Rec £403.58/MBNA Claiming - £584.37 Rec£584.37
    Proud to be dealing with my debts
    Update: 2009 - Currently claiming £1900 from Natwest
  • Just to say good luck and glad it's turned out so lovely for you.
    Daisy
  • Madnessa
    Madnessa Posts: 151 Forumite
    What a change! Good luck and congrats on paying off your loan.
    Don't ever be anybody's slogan because you are poetry
    Loan HSBC: £1952.44 (7 more payments of 278.92 left)
    CC HSBC: [STRIKE]£3691.11[/STRIKE] £2,070 (0% until 15 July 2007) :o :mad: :eek:
    Total: [STRIKE]£6246.64[/STRIKE] £4022.44
    :j :j Debt free by xmas 2007 challenge :j :j
    Mortgage: [STRIKE]£79,500[/STRIKE] £78,861.23
    DFW Nerd Club Members 556
    Proud to be dealing with my debts
  • HelzBelz
    HelzBelz Posts: 619 Forumite
    Good luck babe, glad to hear everything is going OK at the moment, hope hubby has realised what he could be missing on a long term basis and it isn't just a temporay measure.
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