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I am SO glad you are ok! We have all been very worried about you and I am pleased you have made the right decision for yourself.
Well done!If you wait for perfect conditions, nothing would ever get done! :T
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Im so pleased for you HM that things seem to be on the up & up.
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you sound more positive. I hope it works out for you whatever your choices - as long as it is your choice. you deserve to be treated well by the person who should love you the most....I hope he sees the error of his ways, and you keep finding the strength to move forward.x x x0
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Great to see you post HM. I've been logging on every day and was becoming really concerned.
Stay positive and keep positing. No matter what the future holds, remember we're always here if you need to celebrate or vent off steam.
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Stay strong, and keep posting.
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Well done, HM - it's good to see you back with such positivity. As for your OH, only you can really know what he's like to live with, so no-one's likely to judge you for your decision. Hopefully, the shock of nearly losing you has brought him to his senses permanently.
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I'm so pleased you are ok.
Good luck with your future whatever it may hold. It looks like a far more rosy one now as you have learnt that you are worth it and are prepared to stand up for yourself.Debt: 16/04/2007:TOTAL DEBT [strike]£92727.75[/strike] £49395.47:eek: :eek: :eek: £43332.28 repaid 100.77% of £43000 target.MFiT T2: Debt [STRIKE]£52856.59[/STRIKE] £6316.14 £46540.45 repaid 101.17% of £46000 target.2013 Target: completely clear my [STRIKE]£6316.14[/STRIKE] £0 mortgage debt. £6316.14 100% repaid.0 -
Please please please keep the communication process open with you hubby. If things appear to backslide, address the issue straight away. That is vital for all relationships. Its cause i allowed things to back slide on the emotional level, and kept things bottled up, that my relationship with kids dad failed. I warned his next partner of this, and she is a stubborn mule that was willing to put her foot down till issues where dealt with, that they are still together 9 years on.
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Excellent news
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Been away just got back. So relieved to see you had posted. Good luck for the future hun. And hope things work out for you all. Dont forget we will always be here if you need us. And here to listen about the good things as well that happen to you. Big hugs xxxxxxxxxxNight Owl Member No 1 :rotfl: :rotfl:
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And the one who is wont make you cry !!!!!0
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