Frump to Fab - Onwards and Upwards

Tiggger

LL, so glad to hear that you had a peaceful last day with your husband and am so sorry to hear he has passed away.

I have followed your battle to get him the best care over the last few years, you gave so much fight for him. Now is the time for you to take some time for you and we are here to support you in any way we can. You have given so much to these threads please now let us give something back to you. (((hugs))) to you and your boys.

Tiggger x

maddiemay

LL, I am so sorry for your loss but, I am pleased that his last hours were peaceful and filled with the love and companionship of you and his family, the type of end that you had hoped and planned for with him.

Thoughts and prayers for you all, we will all be here for support if you need us, your virtual friends. xx

Kiwisaver_2

lessonlearned wrote: »

The end when it came was gentle and painless - just what I had hoped for.

Oh bless you LL, you did your very best for him and we're all thinking of you. Take care. x

alec_eiffel

So sorry for your loss LL, best wishes to your and those close to you.

lizzie157

lessonlearned wrote: »

My darling died tonight at 6.30.

He had a peaceful day, I showed him some photos and had music playing in the background. He had his family and our closest friends with him as he slept and rested.

The end when it came was gentle and painless - just what I had hoped for.

Gnight All. X

So sorry LL- have been thinking of you. I'm so glad your OH went peacefully. It must have been so comforting to know you provided such a lovely passing (if that makes sense). You were so lucky to have had such a wonderful relationship. You and your family will be in my thoughts over the coming days/weeks. Look after each other and take some time for yourselves to rest. Love and hugs x

pirateyqueen

LL, thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. I'm glad that you were all able to be together and peaceful at the end. Stay strong, we are all thinking of you. xxx

sweaty_betty

So sorry LL.

lessonlearned

Did you see that spectacular moon last night.

Shortly after he died a beautiful rainbow appeared, then when I left the nursing home I looked up and saw that gorgeous moon. It mademe smile. I stood gazing at it for several minutes.

I couldn't help but feel that Mother Natures was showering us with her blessings. Firstly she gave my darling a peaceful and pAinfree death, then ithat lovely rainbow to lift his spirit from the earth and then finAlly that bright silvery moon to guide him to the afterworld and light my journey home through the dark countryside.

Thank you all so much for your kind thoughts.

Physically I feel bruised and battered but mentally and emotionally I feel calm and peaceful.

My feelings are a mixture of relief and gratitude for his gentle passing. His suffering is finally at an end.

The boys and I feel tired and fragile but we hAve each other.

We have a lot to do but we have lots of help and support.

thanks again for all your kind thoughts. I am lucky to have so much support and warmth from everyone.

Time to get the ball rolling.

faerielight

wow, what a gift from the heavens to have seen the rainbow and the beautiful moon. take care xx

Floss

Thoughts & prayers with you & your boys LL.


Floss xx