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  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    Errata wrote: »
    His nose is so far of joint it's at the back of his head. What he's narked about is that people may see the drunken state he gets into. Tough!

    Or a flow of income he's been inappropriately using from funds meant for millefleur might be seen.......

    Or a combination of all three most likely.

    Unfortunately the situation being allowed to continue for a while has enabled him to not get his act together. I don't think that's done him any favours tbh. I really don't think anyone is a winner.

    Otoh, millefleur now has lots of people to talk to every day now, and while it feels odd now it will be much less lonely. She will also be much less vulnerable and you and wasp can relax knowing she is safer and concentrate on maintaining the progress you have made.
  • Pyxis
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  • I agree, LIR. Perhaps this might even force BIL to start getting things together a bit, passing out on his mum's sofa at 4pm certainly won't go down well at the 7pm check. I am sure he is worried about access to money, too. It seems everything is being very tightly monitored now.

    We already feel so much better. With everyone staggered throughout the day it means she will constantly be checked. So far the schoolboy with the food is her favourite because he is "such a polite young man" and asked her if she enjoyed her lunch. Woman with the book confuses her and she is a bit paranoid about what is being written in said book! We presume the personal care will start in the next few days so hopefully she will build a good relationship with that person, too.

    We can't fault them on this, they have every area covered even down to her social life. If she can get out 3 times a week she will absolutely love it!
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  • whitewing
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    BIL's upset because he cannot do The HokeyCokey on his own anymore:

    ...you put your right hand in, your right hand out, in, out, in, out, shake the funds about....
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    whitewing wrote: »
    BIL's upset because he cannot do The HokeyCokey on his own anymore:

    ...you put your right hand in, your right hand out, in, out, in, out, shake the funds about....

    That made me snigger :o:D
  • whitewing
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    So is there a schedule for WaSp to visit?

    Could it even be arranged that you and WaSp have regular visits and WWB can keep the scary BIL away!
    :heartsmil When you find people who not only tolerate your quirks but celebrate them with glad cries of "Me too!" be sure to cherish them. Because these weirdos are your true family.
  • Pyxis
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    So far the schoolboy with the food is her favourite because he is "such a polite young man" and asked her if she enjoyed her lunch.
    Hmm, well next time BookWoman asks her if she needs anything for the night..........................:D
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  • Hahahahaha! I am being shushed by WaSp again!

    It seems that WaSp can visit anytime he wants as long as it doesn't clash with her personal care carer and (hopefully) her trips out each week. We will arrange days that he can go, keeping in mind I can only be left for 4 hours according to my care plan. I could always attempt to go with him of course, which would be nice. Funnily enough he asked today if Milliefleur needed him to come over and she said no, there are plenty of people! Amusingly, we think she wants some alone time which is a huge change from her calling because she was lonely!
    Until one has loved an animal a part of one's soul remains unawakened - Anatole France

    If I knew that the world would end tomorrow, I would still plant apple trees today - Martin Luther King
  • elsien
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    edited 10 December 2014 at 10:54PM
    *whizzes in*
    Change of Internet provider means Internet has died. New job has world war 3 going on between team and manager.:eek:
    I am a tad stressed.

    Just wanted to say that if MIL is worrying about what's been written by lady in book she is entitled to ask to have it read to her.

    *whizzes out again. Need sleep.*
    All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

    Pedant alert - it's could have, not could of.
  • Hope the internet is back soon, elsien and try to stay out of the office politics at least for now!
    Until one has loved an animal a part of one's soul remains unawakened - Anatole France

    If I knew that the world would end tomorrow, I would still plant apple trees today - Martin Luther King
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