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  • whitewing
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    elsien, he has a beautiful sheen to his coat.

    haybel, could LO give Max a toy to take for his lonesome walks and wave him bye bye as his signal to go without her (can you tell I don't have a dog?)
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  • lostinrates
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    Hay bel, was it you who said you'd done some clicker training?


    If so and that was good I'd use click and shape him walking to leave lo. Walking in front of her, walking around a corner with out her, then out of the house with out her, to out of the house and round the corner.

    Its good he cares about her and feels a duty to her, but important that he can leave her safely, or be taken out without her. :)


    Edit, white wings idea of lo teaching him a command to leave her as part of the shaping is a beautiful one, I'd certainly include that....a simple verbal command with a hand gesture. ( that's not used for other things)
  • haybel19
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    Hay bel, was it you who said you'd done some clicker training?


    If so and that was good I'd use click and shape him walking to leave lo. Walking in front of her, walking around a corner with out her, then out of the house with out her, to out of the house and round the corner.

    Its good he cares about her and feels a duty to her, but important that he can leave her safely, or be taken out without her. :)


    Edit, white wings idea of lo teaching him a command to leave her as part of the shaping is a beautiful one, I'd certainly include that....a simple verbal command with a hand gesture. ( that's not used for other things)

    Yes I am the one that mentioned clicker training- done quite a lot of clicker trainer with him. He will funnily enough happily leave her if going in the car- as this means going to Nannie's (which he loves) or to the vets (which he also loves!).

    When out walking he does walk beautifully - happily walks in front of her and would walk round a corner without her or happily wait for her and daddy to catch up. He is quite happy as long as she is somewhere there. Funnily enough when he goes to my mum he quite happily trots off for walks with just her or her and my dad. He just doesnt like to leave people behind.

    Perhaps I can also get round a corner carry on walking and get OH and little one to go a different way home to gt him used to her not always being there.
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  • elsien
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    The culprit in question. :)

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  • Pyxis
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    He's lovely! :)
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  • haybel19
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    elsien wrote: »
    The culprit in question. :)

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    Thank you Elsien.

    He is a gorgoeus boy. Did you like the pic where he has got his head under the curtain to look out? He is a nosy neighbour! :rotfl:
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  • elsien
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    A little doggy curtain twitcher.
    I did wonder if it was your daughter he was peering out after.
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  • haybel19
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    elsien wrote: »
    A little doggy curtain twitcher.
    I did wonder if it was your daughter he was peering out after.

    Lol no I think this was the neighbours! Although little one has now taken to standing next to him if he does this!!!:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
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  • whitewing
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    What fantastic pictures to log on to, haybel. He is gorgeous.

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  • Pyxis
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    Elsien, perhaps Gitdog needs one of these!


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