Just needed to be heard for a little while

lostinrates

Waves_and_Smiles wrote: »

Yay! Another person who likes Chanel 19, I don't feel quite so extravagant now. A much cheaper perfume I like is White Musk from the Body Shop, oh, and a very old one called Chloe because it was the first perfume I ever owned and I remember how sophisticated I felt!

Yes, my other perfumes are more expensive, but sometimes gems exist.

Fir came home, most I characteristically, with a huge bunch of flowers. Gladioli, in soft pastel peachy pink.

There is easily enough for us to have one each......so I'd pass the, round if you were here, as it is I'm just virtually sharing them...

jobbingmusician

Evening all!

Well, I'm feeling a bit more relaxed tonight. We've had the schedule through, and I have everything crossed because it looks as if they don't actually need the house to be totally empty until Monday WEEK. And also they are offering two of the workmen, plus a van, to transport some of the bigger/heavier stuff to storage on Monday.

On the less positive side, the house we are moving into is only available for a MAX of two months (and could be less) instead of the 3 we need. (And I won't have wi fi, so don't worry about me - I will get on when I can.)

Oldestgnome - what a lovely list

Pyxis (3 attempt at writing your name, I'm obviously tired!) brilliant idea about cosmetic-y things!

WaS - late, but here you are

1)Liver failure, brain haemorrhage, bowel cancer - Liver failure has already been ruled out. BH - you wouldn't still be able to post. Bowel cancer - very very unlikely unless you poo blood.
2)Death of Lynsey De Paul (I didn't cause it, right?) Absolutely right. You didn't cause it. Or any of the other deaths this week.
3)Nuclear war (why?!) Always a good fallback if you are running out of things to worry about. Not likely this week/month, though. No fallback or fallout (geddit?)
4)Being evicted - that's why you have a lease, so people can't do that. It would take ages, then you would be seen as vulnerable and rehoused immediately. Take it from a landlord! (We have 3 tiny flats at work)
5)Failing my next benefit review (which isn't due for 15 months but worrying anyway!) They would have ME to deal with if they tried mucking you around, and I have previous
6)Benefit cards - yes, it is possible they will muck these up at the beginning IF they introduce them, but see 5)
7)WaSp dying - yes, that would be pretty ghastly. But there's no reason why he should. Mr JM and I plan to die well into our 90's, of sumo-related activities.
8)Someone breaking into my flat Spiderman?
9)A house fire - Do you have smoke detectors? They should give you plenty of warning.
10)That I am stupid, annoying, selfish and boring and everyone will realise soon and leave me. You do a VERY good impersonation of someone who isn't, so I wouldn't worry IIWY
11)People listening at my door What will they hear? (At the moment, lots of farts from me. A very good deterrent! TMI?)
People climbing up ladders to look through my windows (what?) Spiderman again.
12)A sudden flat inspection Speaking as a landlord again, they don't expect perfection
13)What would happen to WaSp if I died. As others have said, he would be devastated, but should recover. You could even discuss this with him and make it clear to him that you love him and would want him to be happy.
14)That everyone has real worries that are genuinely important and here I am being pathetic worrying over nothing just because I happen to have a chemical mess in my brain right now and I am not worth anyone's time. Yes you are. And yes, it's a chemical mess and so NOT YOUR FAULT xxx
15)A feeling of impending doom that something I haven't thought of is going to go wrong and that I am going to make that happen because it hasn't occurred to me As others have said - you aren't that powerful. Che sera sera

System

Waves_and_Smiles wrote: »

Liver failure, brain haemorrhage, bowel cancer No lover failure, you had tests im sure, brain harmorrage highly unlikely you'd know if you'd had one and bowel cancer is unlikley
Death of Lynsey De Paul (I didn't cause it, right?) Nope, you did not, you are not reasponsible for ANYONE'S deaths
Nuclear war (why?!) Highly unlikely to happen in our lifetime so don't be worrying about it
Being evicted You pay your rent on time, so not gonna happen
Failing my next benefit review (which isn't due for 15 months but worrying anyway!) I understand this worry as i had it contstanly when on esa, but please try not to worry, you have plenty of medical evidence ti support you and i'm sure you'll be fine
Benefit cards Probably won't happen and even on the tiny chance it did i don't think you'd be affected
WaSp dying Oh hunni, i don't think is going to happen anytime soon! So not something you should worry about
Someone breaking into my flat I'm sure you lock your windows and doors, a lot of break ins tend to be oppurtinty ones so if you don't give them the oppurtunity its unlikley to happen
A house fire Again i doubt this would happen. I am terrible inn the kicthen and have still managed not to cause a house fire plus you have WaSP there to make sure everything is okay
That I am stupid, annoying, selfish and boring and everyone will realise soon and leave me No NO NO. All of my nope. You are intelligent, interesting, unselfish and entertaining. You are awesome and we are going no where missy!
People listening at my door Nah i don't think anyone would do this, its unlikely anyone would
People climbing up ladders to look through my windows (what?) People don't tend to carry ladders around so i think you're safe from this one!
A sudden flat inspection I think by law you have to be given 24hrs notice so plenty of warning and no surpise inspections!
What would happen to WaSp if I died He would most likely be heartbroen as would we so please don't go anywhere
That everyone has real worries that are genuinely important and here I am being pathetic worrying over nothing just because I happen to have a chemical mess in my brain right now and I am not worth anyone's time Your worries are just as valid as anyone elses, they matter to you and they matter to us
A feeling of impending doom that something I haven't thought of is going to go wrong and that I am going to make that happen because it hasn't occurred to me You're not going to make anything happen, as Errata said you're not tha powerful, you can't make things happen

Just wanted to add my thoughts

System

Thank you for the good wishes oldestgnome

May have already started the celebrations :beer:

codemonkey

Bleurgh. That is all. Just bleurgh.

Oh and happy birthday MU.

Pyxis

codemonkey wrote: »

Bleurgh. That is all. Just bleurgh.

What's bleurgh, Codemonkey?

whitewing

codemonkey, talk to us.

Many Happy Returns, MU.

Weekend greetings to everyone.

Pyxis

:beer: :beer: :beer:


:j :j :j. ........................ :bdaycake:

jobbingmusician

And today's Freudian slip comes from MU, giving us an insight into her dating..(and birthday celebrations???)

xXMessedUpXx wrote: »

No lover failure.....

:rotfl: Happy Birthday to you!

Anti bleurgh hugs to Codemonkey and anyone else who needs them!

lostinrates

Rainy weather ahead for your enjoyment WaS.

Woke up to a wet morning fir says I am an unearthly colour. Its not true to say there is not much we can do in the rain because there is loads, but we're going to get chicken food and potter this morning, take it slow, if it doesn't perk up we might get an undercoat of paint on some bare plaster somewhere, maybe the upstairs long corridor.