Hen party present?

aileth

Thanks, Polly.

I'm hoping copious amounts of wine will help. At the very least I won't remember it, which is a bonus.

Person_one

thorsoak wrote: »

Frankly, in your position, I would be questioning my own relationship - from what you've posted it would seem as if the whole family views you with a large dose of hostility. Do you really want to be dreading every family occasion for the next umpteen years - Christmas, birthdays, christenings, weddings, funerals, etc etc etc?

aileth, does this mean you've gone back to your husband? I thought you'd finally managed to leave him?

aileth

Person_one wrote: »

aileth, does this mean you've gone back to your husband? I thought you'd finally managed to leave him?

Yes, we had a break for a couple of weeks, I stayed with my parents. He has definitely turned over a new leaf and is like a new man, finally going to the Doctors for his depression, doing things without me saying, basically being a proper man. He has his dips sometimes if things go bad at work, but I think that's true of everyone.

I know now though that I have the strength to leave should things go back to how they were.

The only issue I have now is the family in law :mad:

Pollycat

aileth wrote: »

Yes, we had a break for a couple of weeks, I stayed with my parents. He has definitely turned over a new leaf and is like a new man, finally going to the Doctors for his depression, doing things without me saying, basically being a proper man. He has his dips sometimes if things go bad at work, but I think that's true of everyone.

I know now though that I have the strength to leave should things go back to how they were.

The only issue I have now is the family in law :mad:

Forget them and concentrate on you and your relationship.


Good luck.

Person_one

aileth wrote: »

Yes, we had a break for a couple of weeks, I stayed with my parents. He has definitely turned over a new leaf and is like a new man, finally going to the Doctors for his depression, doing things without me saying, basically being a proper man. He has his dips sometimes if things go bad at work, but I think that's true of everyone.

I know now though that I have the strength to leave should things go back to how they were.

The only issue I have now is the family in law :mad:

I really hope things work out for you, and that genuine change is possible and he keeps it up long term. Good luck. X

Horace

Ignore the outlaws.

As someone else has suggested a wooden spoon from the pound shop is a good idea (a wooden spoon has many uses lol).

FatVonD

Wouldn't it be terrible if your present to her got lost the post (probably in the same place as your birthday cards and presents)

Marshmallow82

you know what I think it is, people watching too much TV and confusing our hen parties with American "bridal showers".

cheeswright

oh my gawd ! is someone trying to start another stupid way to extract money from us?

Well its Sunday and you all have to send me fruitcake !
Im pretty sure my sister agrees with me and will make snarky personal comments if you dont.
Oh and I will unfriend every single one of you who doesn’t send me a fruitcake.
Preferably a home made one..
with a tiara embedded in it...
ontop of a brand new BMW for preference
and I want.........lots of it
and diamonds !!!!

anybody ?