Should I stay or should I go?....

lostinrates

debtfreesomeday wrote: »

thehappybutterfly -far from it! TBH he never really made the effort and it was always me who had to 'initiate things'. We were never really compatible in 'that' department...

Is this a major part of the issue? ( it would be for me, as I said, that and mainly the lack of communication about it)

Sex, and how you communicate sexually can be worked on, to tremendous effect, if both are willing. Would he choose that over separation if it might make things work for you?

The way I would look at that, is that regardless of the outcome it would give you both tools not to fall into this situation with future partners.