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  • mije1983
    mije1983 Posts: 3,665 Forumite
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    So he worked hard for his money and spent it enjoying himself? I'm guessing at 16 he doesn't have any financial obligations so let him make, and be responsible for, his choices. You may not like the way he has spent his money but his money, his choice.

    If he is regretting his choice, then tough! It will be a good lesson for him and better for him to fritter away his entire pay packet in one night at 16, rather than in 10/15 years when he may well have a family to support, mortgage etc.
  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    KrissCross wrote: »
    course he can read. Ive told him i'll try and get his money back, that's why ive come on here.

    Do your son a big favour & teach him to be responsible for his own actions.
    He chose to drink, he chose to waste his cash on a machine. He only has himself to blame.
    Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
  • stevemLS
    stevemLS Posts: 1,067 Forumite
    No chance of getting money back.

    About as much as the logic in OP's position.
  • KrissCross
    KrissCross Posts: 23 Forumite
    none of you understand
  • marliepanda
    marliepanda Posts: 7,186 Forumite
    KrissCross wrote: »
    none of you understand

    If you are genuine then I despair. He spent his money doing two illegal things. You only seem to have a problem with one.
  • mije1983
    mije1983 Posts: 3,665 Forumite
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    KrissCross wrote: »
    course he can read. Ive told him i'll try and get his money back, that's why ive come on here.

    Would you have been asking your son to return the money to the pub if he had won the jackpot when he was illegally playing the machine...............
  • gik
    gik Posts: 1,130 Forumite
    KrissCross wrote: »
    none of you understand



    Oh we do, I assure you!
  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    KrissCross wrote: »
    none of you understand

    Oh we do!
    You are teaching him that it's ok to break the law coz mummy/daddy will make it all better.
    I pity your son.
    Try to be a rainbow in someone's cloud.
  • marleyboy
    marleyboy Posts: 16,698 Forumite
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    KrissCross wrote: »
    course he can read. Ive told him i'll try and get his money back, that's why ive come on here.
    The FACT he can read, only adds to the chances he wont be getting his money back, particularly having read the notice and choosing to ignore it. Unfortunately, coming on here will get you no further in ensuring he can get that refund, the advice will be pretty much to the point, that he is NOT entitled to any refund.
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  • KrissCross
    KrissCross Posts: 23 Forumite
    Surley the pub have done wrong by not asking his age or asking for id. If they had and he had shown his id then it would be his own fault. who can I report the pub to?
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