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  • pebbles88
    pebbles88 Posts: 1,464 Forumite
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    Fantastic news Melly!!!! Xxxxxx
    Please be nice to all moneysavers!
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  • mellymoo74
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    Just dropped some bar stools off to a buyer

    They have beautiful JRTS OH was in love with one of them.

    He's being horrible again now as he has tooth ache (teeth grinding)
    I'm still blown away. We thought he might get the standard rate care reinstated not higher levels of both its beyond expectations.

    I have the option of carers allowance and a break to get OH on an even keel before I go back to work. I need to work it keeps me saneish.

    I am completely wiped out.

    Couldn't have done it wit out the pep talks so thank you x
  • Melly the carers option would be good at the moment . I know you value going out to work but the sensible option at the moment is to sort out your husbands medical needs and your own health .
    Get yourself to bed love and I hope you get some much needed sleep .
    polly x
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Guess who just woke up?

    Think I'm restin today yesteady wiped me out
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Today I have achieved nothing
    (Well helped my friend out with an email to former employers cos I'm good with words) done some washing.

    My beautiful booboo has turned into a whiny clingy girl dog. There is a lady in season this means, crying like a girl whilst trying to climb out the window - check,
    Sitting in the hall with our nose pressed against the front door, occasionally letting out little cries-check,
    Nag human to go out so we can sniff grass-check

    Think I needed a day off. I will have to cook lots tonight OH really needs to try and get solid food down him.
  • elona
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    melly

    I think what you achieved yesterday entitles you to a good few days of rest. Besides you did not do nothing , you helped a friend and you are planning a cooking session for later and helping your pets.
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  • Hi Melly Glad you got some decent sleep , try to get rest as much as you can to help recharge your energy levels . You'll remember we talked about running on adrenelin a few weeks ago well now you need to restore those levels .
    A day of rest will not be a waste as it will help you to sort out your next priority .
    I am having a quick break from catching up on various things but will be back later . Meanwhile if you're lucky enough to have the lovely sunshine we have today have a sit outside .
    Love
    polly x
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Thabks Elona and Pol

    Still doesn't feel real I think is the problem.

    OH has decided I will stay at he or maybe work part time (note not me, I applied for a full time job before the hearing, it's a company I would love to work for) I haven't decided yet.

    Right best take my other casinova out for a smell of ladies
  • Smodlet
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    edited 7 September 2016 at 5:22PM
    You need solid food too, mellymoo.

    Love is in the air, everywhere I sniff around,
    Love is in the air, smell the grass and smell the ground,
    Now I don't know if I'm just dreamin',
    Don't know if I smell it true,
    But I'm sure I smell love in the air now, and I really don't think that it's pooh.

    Apologies, especially to John Paul Young.
  • mellymoo74
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    Lol thanks smodlet that made me laugh.

    He keeps checking it isn't Froo which is annoying her a little (lot)

    Right sleeping
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