talk me down please

wannabe_sybil

It's amazing how the furry ones know when they are needed, even if it is hot!

Sending hugs

mellymoo74

He's awake
Got some tomato soup down him

He's a bit better he doesn't think they will pay if he doesn't go to the appeal so I have told him what our representative said
'Play it by ear, if he's not up to it don't bring him, it's you as his appointee they will be talking to anyway'

I am putting a calendar together with my brood on it, anyone want one?

Ty is going in for the snip, he's well enough to make me a nan (I was so embarassed)

Waves_and_Smiles

Hahahaha! That did make me laugh, Melly. Ty is feeling more lively these days then?

See how OH feels in the morning. It is brave of him to want to go but it is also correct that they will be mostly talking to you anyway.

Me! Me! I want a calendar! Especially if it had Alan on it too. *cough, cough*

mellymoo74

Seems to be filthy little sod.

Honestly I will have enough to think about, without having to calm OH down as well so easier if he stays here.

How about a santa Alan?

Waves_and_Smiles

I LOVE the idea of a Santa Alan!

It might very well be easier for you if OH stays at home because you have no idea how upset he might get and if that is in public it could be difficult for both of you. There is also the point that if he does go and manages to get through it he may crash afterwards. I am leaning towards thinking it is probably better if he stays at home feeling as safe he can.

pollyanna_26

Melly I am thinking very much the same as WAS . Your husband will feel better now he is offering to go as it is showing support for you but if he can understand his presence will not affect the outcome he will be better not risking a complete meltdown in his present highly anxious state . Remind him you have a letter of support from his doctor and all that can be done has already been done . You need to be as calm as possible tomorrow and if he goes into freefall it wont help either of you .
Love polly x

mellymoo74

He has just had another meltdown so
Cuddle
Back stroking

Making him laugh when I told him it was going to be like the advert where the poodle turns up with all the puppies but with Ty, pickles mum and pickle and Ty baby clones.

It is better if they see but not at this cost, he's a mess because he almost went out today and he is supposed to go out tomorrow.

CMHT in the morning I think.
He's also said he doesn't want to see the FSW ever again so I have told him I will speak to her manager tomorrow about her removal.

Don't think I'm gonna get any sleep he's too delicate

pollyanna_26

It's just not worth him pushing himself on this one is it Melly ? He's already in need of serious help in the right way . What time do you have to be there tomorrow ? and have you managed to sort out how you'll get there . Sometimes everything seems so hard love but I bet he appreciates the fact you can still make him laugh . I have a picture of you swanning into the meeting with your feline and doggy entourage , bet that would be worth watching !
Make sure you don't try to sort too many things tomorrow . CMHT call is a good plan but tell them you have the meeting to attend when you phone .
Hugs polly xx

mellymoo74

1.40pm tribunal is at 2pm

I am getting a lift with a friend and will get the bus back.

You know me why sort out 1 thing when you can do 10.
I do need to try and pace myself a bit.

Warned him I will be taking his medication with me, he said what the stuff that's in the living room guarded by attack jack Russell's

He's up and down tonight which isn't surprising.

Just been admiring tys beauty he's got silver in his coat as well as some ginger.
His white is gleamy now.
He was loving OH to tomcat disgust.

I think LBG is upduffed
I hope I am wrong but fairly sure she's upduffed and her and Tom are out and about together alot

pollyanna_26

Glad to see you have a lift there tomorrow . You certainly do need to try and pace yourself love - pot , kettle , black here Tomorrow will take a lot out of you and you do need to recoup some energy .
I think as I said earlier a call to cmht is a good idea and maybe book an appointment for a phone consultation with doctor .
I understand you want everything sorted but trying to sort it all will be overwhelming for both yourself and your husband .
Priority is meeting and some contact with doctor , the meds need sorting . If you think it will happen I would be inclined to try Elsians suggestion of a house call as it is better if the doctor sees him face to face .
I hope both of you have some rest tonight and wish you good luck tomorrow we'll all be with you in spirit .
Night night love
polly xx

PS Don't even think of housing any of cats possible offspring :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: