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  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Comfy boy
  • mellymoo74
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    Just had pip appeal whatsit

    It's been awarded for 3 years
  • Smodlet
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    YEE-HAH!!! Well done, you! If anyone deserves it, it is you and OH.
    :j:T:j:T:j:T:j:T:j:T:j:T:j:T:j:T:j:T:j:T:j:T:j
  • mellymoo74
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    Still don't know how I did it.

    Not lying helps
    Also think my job helped, used to explaining things and panels
  • Smodlet
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    You did it because you are an amazing human being, mellymoo... I really hope your OH knows it, deep down; I am sure he does. Your furries certainly do. Well done, babe.

    S xxx
  • Savvy_Sue
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    mellymoo74 wrote: »
    Supposed to have my esa assessment and a meeting at the job centre for both me and OH on Tuesday.

    Do you reckon I can cancel and rearrange the assessment (need a home visit)
    Let the job centre know OH won't be attending I as his appointee will?
    You can but ask. But what are you asking? Will you be able to go on your own? Or do you want a home visit for both of you? I reckon the latter is going to be more difficult, but if you could go for your esa assessment and attend the joint appointment stating that you are his appointee and he's not well enough to leave the house, hard to see what they can do, beyond decline HIS claim. But you're there, so your claim should be good to go.

    But I know very little about the workings of these things ...
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  • mellymoo74
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    Hi Savvy
    Asking because I am wiped out and OH won't leave the house.

    Home visit for me can't leave OH for long periods.
  • pebbles88
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    Is it the wca assessment melly?
    Please be nice to all moneysavers!
    Dance like nobody's watching; love like you've never been hurt. Sing like nobody's listening; live like it's heaven on earth."
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  • mellymoo74
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    edited 8 September 2016 at 6:50PM
    It's my esa assessment we have been on the assessment phase since Jan.

    I am wiped
    Also benefits will be changing in October (told I need to move to income support top up and carers allowance once POP is sorted)

    That's a long winded yes isn't it?
  • mellymoo74
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    OH has seen and had explained the tribunal findings doobery
    He's taking it pretty well considering it basically calls him a basket case
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