talk me down please

mellymoo74

No
He's in free fall so not talking at all.

I am in with the dogs.

Def related to Tuesday

pollyanna_26

Hi again Melly . Glad you have the appointment for his meds check .
I think all you can do is take this one day at a time .
Meds check Monday and pip Tuesday .
If you can keep not engaging with nasty comments he may run out of steam . He's hitting out at all the fear and all the letdowns but as WAS said you do not have to accept unkind and nasty behaviour .
Has he been awake long enough to sleep tonight ? The best thing is if you can get a nights sleep tonight without any more upset .
Is LBG still visiting ? How odd that she has a lookalike - maybe you've been feeding both of them :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
Hope you get some rest
Love
polly x

mellymoo74

LBG came in earlier
Ate
Got slapped by pickle

Amazingly he's managed to make himself cheese on toast by the smell

pollyanna_26

He's either feeling a bit sorry or very hungry !
Are you feeling a little better ? it's horrible when the atmosphere is so upsetting but a bit of space can help calm things a little .
I don't know how long you have to wait for a decision on pip appeal but hope it wont be long .
Love
polly x

mellymoo74

Oh he didn't make me any

Lol
Its pretty immediate so I'm told you can either wait and be told on the day or get it in writing the next day or so.

pollyanna_26

At least you know he can feed himself if you go on strike
Would be good to get the outcome on the same day . I think waiting for decision letters can add even more stress to a worrying time .
Fingers crossed all will be ok .
We'll be here through the next few days to hold you up .
I'm about to force myself up the stairs to bed - you know that feeling when you're too tired to go to bed , that's me tonight !
Sleep tight
polly x

wannabe_sybil

Sending lots and lots of hugs

mellymoo74

No better today.

Did have a lovely accompanied by pickle dog walk

I am on strike I think so
I'm cleaning because I need it clean but other than that he's on his own (he can't manage so that lesson should work well)

His mum could keep this up for years, OH has managed a week before now
Maybe him not going fits more into what is happening anyway than managing to get there.

wannabe_sybil

I think this could help, but watch out for yourself


hugs x

mellymoo74

He was nasty for a change you can clearly see his mum when he does this.

It's what he has learned so lovely self fulfilling prophesy (people will leave you, they will hurt you, don't trust them, don't treat them well, oh they have left you, see people will leave you etc)

Coupled with constant pain and the mental health stuff I am left with this.

Cats are out, they both came to see me, when we got back from dog walk, for lunch been fed back out.

Have had some sugar puffs cos I was greying out.
Taken codeine now going to sleep with my doggies (they are lovely and are both giving me many much love)

Tomcat is in a 'don't touch me!' Mood