talk me down please

wannabe_sybil

Sleep. Seriously, sleep, rest, relax, sleep. Earplugs.

For white noise to help block out expletive deleted try playing YouTube (if you have a computer) and you can get eight hours of the sound of rain. I found it incredibly soothing.

hugs

xxxx

Flybaby

Sybil - whenever I see you it makes me smile and want to shout Where's my cow! Grin

mellymoo74

Glad I'm not the only one flybaby
Still not had the scans
Paramedics were lovely, one of them knew husbands cousin
My blood pressure is fantastic, heart rate fine, blood sugar 6.2. So its probably hemiplegic attack which is scary but not life threatening.

Hospital was dirty, rammed, and when a nurse tipped me out of the wheelchair because I couldn't get out of it fast enough due to my leg not working I left.

Following sat and the HA s response to my telling the of the threats (ie have you moved your bins?) I am going to look into an injunction

OH pooed his pants, as he got up to find me going outside to wait for ambulance and they took me to hospital before I could say where I was going. He has been keeping my fluids up.

mellymoo74

Just had the best cat food flavoured and scented love.
Purring, dribbling (don't ask, he also has permenant fangs like a vampire) and nipping.

Now having twitchy jrt cuddles.

Work tomorrow, PALS emailed.

pinkandblueshoe

You did better than me ognum, I was referred to as a man hater for my previous post on here (which Im absolutely not) and accused of flaming. Which I wasn't. At all. Yes we bring our experiences into everything we post, but to make judgement like that on me simply for trying to (kindly) suggest that you could be dealing with your issues another way, it says more about you than it does about me. Ive got better things to do with my time than deliberately provoke people on a forum. I think this thread will run fine as long as people agree with everything you say and tip toe around you, otherwise not.

I think the OP has got used to functioning in chaos and can't seem to function any other way. I get it, because life has been pretty much chaos for some time.

I find it more than a bit odd OP that you and other people seemed to have a reaction to me suggesting your OH was being less than pleasant to you (referred to a man hater no less), but you post a few pages back that if he continues to behave the way hes been doing, you wont be with him for more than another year.

And Im going to say no more than this because I cant be bothered getting insulted again. When you post a thread, as soon as the first person posts, its no longer yours, you take the chance of people not always agreeing with you. I wont be posting on here again, don't worry, just really didn't like being called names I felt I didn't deserve.

Take care of yourself.

mellymoo74

Please check the posts Pauline I didn't flame.
If you look I thanked Ognum because I can see why they would think that.
You seem to have a problem with me and I'm not sure why, again if you look I have said we all take our own experience into a thread.
I don't understand why you would post in a thread to tell me your not going to post in my thread? I also think your projecting a little about being sensitive to people not agreeing.

mellymoo74

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Thanks pebbles.

The meeting is about getting us moved to a property that better suits our needs.
The noise is a toddler running around and jumping off furniture 18 hours a day so guess what the police aren't interested.

He doesn't treat me appallingly and he has mental health issues that he is awaiting a psychologist to be assigned for, I love him and guess what not going to !!!! him off 2 months after his mothers death cos he's not handling it well. That might be why the divorce rate is so high people throwing in the towel when it's not all about them.

I am naturally incredibly assertive (some would say aggressive) this is a place I can post get all of this out and present the calm face I need to to the world.

Answered points from your post no flaming.

mellymoo74

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Unfortunately everyone carries their own experience into a thread. This can lead to posts like the ones I tend to ignore about all men being evil etc.

Believe I have made it clear that I have reported the noise to the HA.
Those of you who have followed the thread will see OH is both trying to access the support he needs and finally acknowledged the problem.

Again where have I said your a man hater your not on ignore so....

Flybaby

Hello moo - how are things today? I have had bang bang bang all day from next door. Not normal as they are redecorating but enough to make me put my ear defenders on and tell myself in a stern voice that it is nothing compared to what some lovely people have to deal with. ~squish~

DigForVictory

Big hugs, honey girl! How're the cuttings doing?