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  • OrangeFairy
    OrangeFairy Posts: 2,630 Forumite
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    Hi Olivia,

    I am so sorry to year of you situation......what a selfish jerk your other half is (sorry)

    I really hope your situation improves. Shouldn't your ex help with some of the council tax debt?

    OF x
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  • Hi Olivia,

    I am so sorry to year of you situation......what a selfish jerk your other half is (sorry)

    I really hope your situation improves. Shouldn't your ex help with some of the council tax debt?

    OF x

    He should have to pay half I think. However as I have no true address for him because he's sofa hopping they cant chase him for it so it lands on me as its added on this years bill :(
    Time to start again :o
  • Today has been a long day :( A no spend one though.

    Hopefully something more useful to update tomorrow.
    Time to start again :o
  • Lucy5781
    Lucy5781 Posts: 745 Forumite
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    Can you now get single person's discount on the council tax moving forward though? Lxx
    Credit Card & Overdraft Debts Jan 2012: £16,000+ :eek: [STRIKE] Credit Card & Overdraft Debts Sep 2013: £13,023 [/STRIKE]
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  • Puzzcat
    Puzzcat Posts: 4,200 Forumite
    Hi Olivia,


    Just wanted to say you are doing a fantastic job keeping your home and family together and battling the debts. I think quite a few of us can relate to some of what you are going through and really want to wish you the best of luck for the future and give you a :T.


    Puzz. x
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  • Lucy5781 wrote: »
    Can you now get single person's discount on the council tax moving forward though? Lxx

    Yes, my new SOA takes the discount into account :)
    The arrears aren't any less though as its from last year.
    Puzzcat wrote: »
    Hi Olivia,


    Just wanted to say you are doing a fantastic job keeping your home and family together and battling the debts. I think quite a few of us can relate to some of what you are going through and really want to wish you the best of luck for the future and give you a :T.

    Thank you for stopping buy and replying :) x

    Puzz. x
    Time to start again :o
  • Afternoon all hope everyone is well.

    Not such a good day I've had to borrow money to cover some bills :o

    So this week is about be tight again so I can make sure I can pay back what I've borrowed and still pay some of the debt :o:(

    Will I ever get straight :cool:

    The kids still are in desperate need of clothes, I really can't put it off any longer either :(

    Boring, depressing update :cool:
    Time to start again :o
  • Bank balance £0
    Purse £20 + change

    Debt

    Friend £900
    Dad [STRIKE]£305 £280 £500 £430[/STRIKE] £330 (I had paid another £100 off but borrowed back :o)
    Mum [STRIKE]£150 £50 [/STRIKE]£0 :D
    Fine [STRIKE]£185[/STRIKE] £165
    Council tax [STRIKE]£1220.85 £1103 £1011 £1000 £900[/STRIKE] £800

    So total now [STRIKE]£2610.85 £2448 £2626 £2495 £2295[/STRIKE] £2195

    Still heading the right way even though I borrowed back what I'd paid my dad :o

    This week I must pay (upto the 11th)
    Perfect home £85
    Virgin £95
    Rent £30
    Council Tax £40 at least.
    Dad £130 at least.
    Fine £15 at least.
    TV license £11.20

    As well as sorting the kids clothes ASAP!

    Looks like another difficult week :cool: :(
    Time to start again :o
  • mooomin
    mooomin Posts: 13,703 Forumite
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    Can I ask why you're paying your dad back right now when you're in such a tricky situation? Would he be willing to wait a month or two?

    Other than that, have you checked local charity shops etc for the kids clothes? You can get loads of bargains on Facebook selling sites locally too and kids clothes often go really cheaply.

    Good luck!
  • dawnybabes
    dawnybabes Posts: 3,507 Forumite
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    Have you tried asking on free cycle for the kiddies clothes ?
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    Jan - £176.66 :j
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