HB problems. Need lots of support please.

Morglin

SandraScarlett wrote: »

Like others who have expressed their concern, I too was worried about the OP. The last time she posted was on the morning of the 24th, on Monday, when she was intending to go to the Council, and she hasn't posted since.


But her profile shows that she was last on the site, the following day, Tuesday, at 9 at night, so I wonder why she didn't update us? Any ideas anyone?


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A 'drama Llama' or a troll?

Lin

Blackpool_Saver

either way it would be good if she could just check in

Lioness_Twinkletoes

I think the OP is being thoughtless and selfish. I have no doubt she was over reacting and has no intention of killing herself, but she should come and reassure others who have taken the time to post and are genuinely concerned about her.

Housing_Benefit_Officer

Any debt won't go away if you kill yourself - your partner will still have to pay it back - and he will have even less money to do this once he has paid for your funeral.

paulineb_2

Someone saying I would rather kill myself, is different from someone saying Im suicidal.

Not that I think its a particularly pleasant turn of phrase to use, but apart from the headline, there's little in any of the postings that would say to me that the poster isnt anything other than very stressed.

I dont take suicide lightly, its happened to my family on more than one occasion, but I dont think given that the OP has been back on since they posted, that people need to get too alarmed.

Some people wont update even after making a rather dramatic thread, thats the way of the internet at times.

Happychappy

paulineb wrote: »

Someone saying I would rather kill myself, is different from someone saying Im suicidal.

Not that I think its a particularly pleasant turn of phrase to use, but apart from the headline, there's little in any of the postings that would say to me that the poster isnt anything other than very stressed.

I dont take suicide lightly, its happened to my family on more than one occasion, but I dont think given that the OP has been back on since they posted, that people need to get too alarmed.

Some people wont update even after making a rather dramatic thread, thats the way of the internet at times.

More than likely gone to take the pit bill out for a walk

Ruby_woo

Thank you to the people who have also replied. I know its one of the downsides of the internet but generally on here people are kind and caring and I hope that she is ok.

If she would at least let us know that she is ok the it would put my mind at rest, also, she could tell us how much she thinks she owes and whether this has happened to her before. Then people could give her proper advice. It maybe a few thousand or could be tens of thousands. The thing is until she replies people can't help her.

I hope she has sorted this though and is maybe out in the lovely weather with her family.

SandraScarlett

Morglin wrote: »

A 'drama Llama' or a troll?

Lin

Hmmm, whether it's either of those, or genuine, it's sad that she couldn't just post "everything's OK now", when she was on site on Tuesday.


Such is the internet.


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Own_My_Own

SandraScarlett wrote: »

Hmmm, whether it's either of those, or genuine, it's sad that she couldn't just post "everything's OK now", when she was on site on Tuesday.


Such is the internet.


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In all fairness I stay logged in at all times, but it only shows if the MSE tab is opened on my iPad. It could easily have been opened by another member of her family, then closed again.

SandraScarlett

Own_My_Own wrote: »

In all fairness I stay logged in at all times, but it only shows if the MSE tab is opened on my iPad. It could easily have been opened by another member of her family, then closed again.

Which is even more of a worry!


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