Depression Support Thread

ilovegreatdanes

as re the funeral,was quite a strange one really.was taken by a pastor, so dont know the religion, but was a celebration of her life, which was loads better i thought.it was a neighbour so we were not close really but still upsetting, iykwim.
seem to be alot of death lately which makes me more determined to cherish life.
thats why i dont like upsets and stuff.it is harder to keep up on here cos there are lots of new ppl, and if you are away for awhile ,you feel left out in the cold alittle.i hope we can all get along and help each other.
im glad to hear from shaz,and ive sent ccstar a pm to ask her to keep posting, cos i feel like we are abandoning her when she really needs us.its up to her, but i would hate to think that she thinks we are nasty and ganging up, cos thats the last thing i would like her to remember.
usually when you are having a really rough time, you take it out on your friends becos you know they will not judge you, so you say harsh stuff without realising how much you are hurting ppl, but mostly yourself, iykwim.
i dont mean to put words in ccstars mouth as she can speak for herself.
i hope i havent offended anyone here and you all get the gist of what im waffling on about.
life is so tough for us all, and we all have diff ways of coping.
........ill just go back and hide behind the wall now......
love ilgd xx

whitevanwoman

week wrote: »

Hi WvW Hi Wee k
Sorry you are not having a good day. Its got better as the day went on, most mornings are crap. I am going to PM you later(sorry I didnt manage to do it last night as planned) No probs, whenever... when I have made some improvement in the house. I am feeling like doing something rash( to the house, not me!!!!) Good for you. I've actually hoovered this afternoon, first time for weeks. With 2 dogs & 2 cats you can imagine the state it was in, couldn't see the floor for animal hair.
You click on the quote bit at the bottom of the one you want to use. Sussed! Thanks. Not sure how to quote specific bits. I imagine you highlight then copy and paste but not tried that yet. Will try that another time.
I will need to go and do something as I have been up for ages and achieved very little so far. It was either hoovering or a trip to the supermarket; the hoovering won as I didn't have to get changed and cleaned up to do that. I'm trying to pursuade myself that I must go out tomorrow; if I can get myself sorted to go out by 2.30, I'll get the reduced price bread and deli stuff at Morrisons.
Tiff
What is the smarties thing? The mind boggles!!!!
K.

Hope you got your "something rash" done - do you feel better for doing it? There's something really satisfying about moving round furniture or chucking out loads of junk, or being ruthless about getting rid of clothes you haven't worn for several years.
Don't stress about PM-ing me, whenever you've got time. I'll be here!
wvw x

Sazbo

ilovegreatdanes wrote: »

aahh, thank you so much for your comment, im really touched:o ......and i know my oh agres with me about the touched bit......but i dont think he means it in quite the same way as me:rotfl:
enjoy your hols, you deserve it:A

aww thanks hun. i'm not going 'away-away', so you lot won't be rid of me that easily:D:D

seriously though, i always love reading your posts. I dont think you've said anything to offend, hun. imo, you genuinely care about people and you always speak from the heart and nobody could ask for any more than that...

big hugs,
Sazzyxxxxx

Sazbo

BigMummaF wrote: »

:shocked: Sazz???????........:shocked::eek: Miro!?!!??!

who, me?! :rotfl:

Sxxx

whitevanwoman

Another newbie question I'm afraid...

What's the score about thanking people? Do you all thank everyone who posts? Or do you just thank people who reply or refer to your own posts? Don't want to alienate anyone by not thanking them! But sometimes I do forget.

Sazbo

whitevanwoman wrote: »

Another newbie question I'm afraid...

What's the score about thanking people? Do you all thank everyone who posts? Or do you just thank people who reply or refer to your own posts? Don't want to alienate anyone by not thanking them! But sometimes I do forget.

Hiya white :wave: i wouldnt worry too much hun x i tend not to be very systematic about it... lol but maybe that's coz i'm a bit disorganised generally:D i find i dont have the time to thank every single post. i guess i thank if I particularly appreciate a post for whatever reason. some folk do thank everyone, others very rarely. i say do what suits you hun.

love,
Sazzy xxxx

gillette147

I demand thanks. And I will be cross if I don't get it!!!

* folds arms *

whitevanwoman

Don't be cross with me, I've just thanked you!

Sazbo

gillette147 wrote: »

I demand thanks. And I will be cross if I don't get it!!!

* folds arms *

come here badgie, give us a hug

sx

angellotz

hello everyone....i came for a couple of days and then disappeared, partly because i was so busy and partly because i was a bit too down to talk about it...feel a little better now so i'm back!!

sorry to hear there was difficulty on here the other day!

how are you all?