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  • meyore
    meyore Posts: 2,721 Forumite
    And this is the car, its been pushed up the back lane and left there.

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    You would have thought from where the wall and the car are damaged they were coming down the road towards the camera, but they were heading up it. They must have spun the car or something, its crazy.
    :heartpuls :love: :heartpuls
  • meyore
    meyore Posts: 2,721 Forumite
    Right, moaning over, I'm off for an adventure!

    Xx
    :heartpuls :love: :heartpuls
  • Gosh, it sounds like whoever was driving had a lucky escape. Silly if they were racing though.

    You're right meyore. At the end of the day that is their job and they must have done it many times so really we shouldn't worry. Probably easier said than done though :o

    Hmmm I don't know what to do. There is this guy I like. He lives fairly near to me. We've never met but have known each other for quite a few years. We chat on MSN quite a bit and text each other ocassionally. I'm not quite sure what he thinks of me and I'm way too shy to ask. He has a girlfriend but I'm not quite sure how serious it is. She lives quite far away. His status on facebook always says single. He says that she's distancing herself from him and he doesn't know why :confused: Anyway I asked him if he fancied meeting up and he suggested this weekend, which is fine with me. However, after thinking about it I'm not so sure if I should see him. Someone tell me what to do please...
    --><-- Sugar Coated Owl --><--

    If you believe, you will survive - Katie Piper

    Woohoo! I'm normal! Gotta go tell the cat.
  • What a mess they have made of the car. Nice car as well. Perhaps they stole it or something.
    --><-- Sugar Coated Owl --><--

    If you believe, you will survive - Katie Piper

    Woohoo! I'm normal! Gotta go tell the cat.
  • RBK - I can understand how you feel, and I imagine you are having conflicting thoughts? On one hand, this could be a good relationship that might bring you happiness, on the other hand he does have a girlfriend. What do you have in mind with meeting? Do you want to meet as friends, or are you hoping for more? I see no problem with meeting as friends and seeing how things go. It gets complicated if things happen though, his relationship situation sounds complicated. Also, and I hope this doesn't sound horrible, but are you strong enough to handle the consequences if it doesn't work out how you'd hoped? I recently confessed my feelings for someone who didn't reciprocate, and it really knocked me for six. Have to confess I sat in the bathroom with the knife in my hand, and it was very, very hard not to give in. It hurt an awful lot more than I thought it would. All I'd say is be aware that all actions have consequences, and not all of them good. Talking is always good, make sure you talk about things with friends before you make any descisions. Remember safety too - tell someone where you are going, and phone to check in with them (if you don't want anyone to know, I'm willing to do this). Is there any indication that he might feel the same?
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    Tulip wrote: »
    :hello: Everyone,

    welcome Rainbowchild to our thread :) today I am cleaning my flat and seeing my Physcologist at 11am :) listening to Westlife this morning to their Turnaround album :) havent heard this for a while so its nice to hear it again after so long :)

    Got a food shop to do later,off to find some Kylie Minogue bedding so far I have been unsuccessful in locating it so trying nearer to home or its a trip out to Plymouth to another stockist tomorrow as I love plymouth :) I will go on the bus as its free for me to get there and I dont have to pay :) so hope you are ok Shaz,I am your friend too :)

    I hope you all have a lovely day :)

    *hugs* to everyone


    love and light,

    Katie xxx
    hi katie, hope the appointment went well, have fun shopping and hope you find the bedding you want. its good to know i have so many friends online, as i dont have any off line so to speak
    big hugs
    shaz x
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • hi all i hope your ok, shaz how are you today hun how is your arm? ive just finished working and nipping to vw in a bit to see my car lol!

    i hope your ok and feeling better today

    love hugs and kisses

    Steph xx
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    :hello: morning!

    Shazrobo I wish I had seen your posts last night. Perhaps we could have helped each other overcome the urge to self-harm. I hadn't cut for a while but last night I wanted to, I needed to. The strange thing is it felt good, a huge release. My arm is covered in scars so the thought of the cuts scarring doesn't even bother me anymore.

    Hun, please make sure you look after your cuts. How are they today? Still bleeding? How are you feeling?

    I've added you to MSN, so if you ever need to chat feel free to message me :)

    Welcome RainbowChild. I hope you find this thread helpful. Feel free to post as much or as little as you want.

    I would recommend that you did go and see your GP. Be honest with him/her and tell tell him/her how you are really feeling (((HUGS)))

    Tulip I hope your appointment with the psychologist goes well. Hope you find the bedding that you want.

    Diamond How are you? Haven't seen you post for a little while. How's things? Did you go to the interview?

    meyore How are you this morning? What do you have planned today?
    hi rbk, how are you today, i feel the same, its a release when i'm cutting, but feel so ashamed afterwards. the cuts are very sore today and still bleeding a little so i've put a dressing on them. off to my mum's this afternoon, so need to wear a big baggy jumper, then she dosen't know, she gave me such a hard time last time wen she found out
    big hugs
    shaz x
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    Stephb1986 wrote: »
    hi all i hope your ok, shaz how are you today hun how is your arm? ive just finished working and nipping to vw in a bit to see my car lol!

    i hope your ok and feeling better today

    love hugs and kisses

    Steph xx
    hi steph, how are you this morning, bet your dead excited to be getting your new car. my arm is sore this morning, and i've had to put a dressing on it cos it keeps bleeding a little, but it'll heal
    shaz x
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    hi meyore, i think your so brave going for your legs waxing, i'd be too scared to go for anything like that
    shaz x
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
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