Depression Support Thread

shazrobo

Stephb1986 wrote: »

where are you thinking of going shaz??

yeah im dead excited about my car been and seen him today

sorry your arm is hurting i hope its better soon.


Steph xx

its a he? does he have a name lol
my car is a she, called bertha lol, cos its biggest car i ever had, bit like a bus so big bertha.
no idea where or if we will go, doubt it will be this year, so plenty time to pluck up the courage and think about it
shaz x

meyore

Once you have a passport number its easier to do the childrens. It proves they're British citizens. People born after 1982 need so many checks done on them for a first passport, so this will make it easier.

Xx

shazrobo

meyore wrote: »

Once you have a passport number its easier to do the childrens. It proves they're British citizens. People born after 1982 need so many checks done on them for a first passport, so this will make it easier.

Xx

yeah they will need my passport number. do you know what other id the kids might need? they have one name on their birth certificates and a known by a different surname. what they need anything in writing from my ex husband, do i need his permission to take them out of this country for a holiday?
thanks
shaz x

meyore

You're their guardian legally, so no I don't think you need anyones permission to take them anywhere. Its not as if you're taking them away from him is it. Unless you've legally changed their names (deed poll) then they have to be known by whats on their birth certificates. If you have changed it by deed poll, you'll need the evidence of this as well as their full birth certificates. As far as I know, if you say you are not in contact with their father, they won't ask for any info on him, other than name.

Xx

shazrobo

meyore wrote: »

You're their guardian legally, so no I don't think you need anyones permission to take them anywhere. Its not as if you're taking them away from him is it. Unless you've legally changed their names (deed poll) then they have to be known by whats on their birth certificates. If you have changed it by deed poll, you'll need the evidence of this as well as their full birth certificates. As far as I know, if you say you are not in contact with their father, they won't ask for any info on him, other than name.

Xx

thanks, i didnt chnge their name by deed poll, but i did it through a solicitor, and got change of name certificates, but original is still on their birth certificates
shaz x

meyore

The birth certificates and name change certificates ought to do it then. Glad you're getting it sorted, sounds like you've all got a treat coming up next year! Where do you think you'd like to go?

Xx

shazrobo

meyore wrote: »

The birth certificates and name change certificates ought to do it then. Glad you're getting it sorted, sounds like you've all got a treat coming up next year! Where do you think you'd like to go?

Xx

somewhere not too far away to be honest, not sure the boys will behave well on too long a journey.poss france or spain, anywhere would be a change from this country
shaz x

week

Hi to all
Welcome rainbowchild.
Not had a very good day and feel very down. Work was bad(worst it has felt in ages-like 6 months) customers all seemed to have big problems and wanted to moan and a co worker was very rude to me in front of lots of other members of staff. He told me to stop shouting at him, which I wasnt! and I said I am not shouting at you and he said "yes you are". I can talk loud but that was not me shouting!! Believe me if I had been shouting he would know. I was very taken aback and embarrassed in front of lots of people.
I told my manager and she emailed his manager to complain and I was visibly upset(not tearful just anxious and irritated). I should not have let him bother me, I hardly know him and have only ever been pleasant to him. The customers continued to have big problems and issues for the rest of the day, I was so fed up at the end of my shift. I then floated around the shops buying stuff I don't want or need(just got paid) to try and cheer myself up but it didnt work. I need to go and empty my car, it is full of bits of a wardrobe.
Must go back later tonight!
K.

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

I had a nice day today,appointment went well with Physcologist I didnt suceed finding the Kylie Minogue bedding range so its off to Plymouth I go I think as none near me stock her bedding.Never Mind,My dvds I rented came today so I am happy and they came very quickly


I am very impressed with them already I might watch a film tonight after Holby City It depends on how tired I feel or I might just leave it until tomorrow


Have a great evening everyone

*hugs* to everyone


love and light,

Katie xxx

queensway_boy

Katie

............What lovely holiday pics from our ray of sunshine x :T