Depression Support Thread

Stephb1986_2

night shaz sweet dreams xxx

Miroslav

geminilady wrote: »

Hi Miro:hello: "every night I go to bed I dream about the life I wish I had and that I had someone that cared" Me to:o I might have said this before but i believe this is why a lot of people are suffering from depression and for the ones that have a OH it is not enough they still want something more.I do not cry either not for years infact i wrote a poem not so long ago about it hope nobody minds me posting it but its a kind of therapy for me.

I do not cry anymore
the tears dried up long ago

along with lost dreams and love not lost
because it was never truely given
not complete love not the all consuming
never ending love that i dreamed of
long ago when i still had tears to cry
tears are for other people the ones
who have arms to hold them
a shoulder to rest their head
I mingle with the crowd
smile with my mouth
laugh at their jokes
i breath so i must be alive
but i do not cry anymore

gemini lady :wave:

What I wouldn't do for a nice young lady in my life, but it has to be the right one, as any girl will just make things worse when it doesn't work out. I think my standards are too high though as I had a brilliant relationship and now all I meet are materialistic shallow girls with no real personalities

Nice poem How did you feel when you had written it? Did you feel like you had put into words how you felt and did it lighten the weight on your shoulders? Did you feel any better for writing it?

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote: »

I prefer the thighs meself..
OH won't eat anything with bones in so he eats the breast too

I was brought up like a peasant.. I enjoy nothing better than gnawing on chops and ribs and stuff like that

I prefer thighs to breast....oh wait, sorry...chickens........yeah, breast of a chicken

I hope you don't make a snorting noise when you eat :rotfl:

Miroslav

shazrobo wrote: »

here is the best place, as we can tell people what we really feel like, which i cant in real life, and every one is so accepting and friendly, why cant real life be like this?
life is so hard, one of my sons has just being diagnosed with depression too, hes only 12, and i feel guilty maybe he's got it from me?
maybe cos he is so like me, he's ever so helpful kind, and taken advantage because of it

You can be more open here, without giving out your address or anything.

Real life would be easier if it was like this, but people aren't as accepting in real life

Depression is not hereditary. I suspect he is depressed for a variety of things. Is this the one who gets into scrapes at school? Maybe it's to do with that?

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,

Just popped in for a minute to say Goodnight,I have been on facebook for ages and I have had fun with it

so I will chat tomorrow

Night! Night!


love and light,

Katie xxx

Miroslav

Stephb1986 wrote: »

i do talk to my OH about stuff but not properly i dont like getting upset infront of him. Its like when the 6 of us went on holiday me my OH my mum and step dad my step sister and her OH, in the middle of starbucks my step sister OH started asking about my real dad now thats a bit of a no go subject with me and my mum ive never really spoke about my dad to my OH either because i'd get really upset but he continued to probe and my OH could see i wasnt comfortable so we ended up leaving early, he said he had no clue how bad it was and i should of told him to be honest we only mentioned the mild stuff it was alot worse than we made out.

I'd prefer any future OH to let it all out to me, but then having been depressed virtually my whole life, I guess I understand it more.

It can be diffficult though. Because i've been spoken over and made to feel unimportnat my whole life, I now don't even try to tell people

Tulip

Miroslav wrote: »

You can be more open here, without giving out your address or anything.

Real life would be easier if it was like this, but people aren't as accepting in real life

Depression is not hereditary. I suspect he is depressed for a variety of things. Is this the one who gets into scrapes at school? Maybe it's to do with that?

hey Miro,

Did you know that Britney is out of hospital?

Katie

Miroslav

Tulip wrote: »

hey Miro,

Did you know that Britney is out of hospital?

Katie

Tulip :wave:

Yes, I am aware, sadly.

I'm pleased she is out in one way, but is she ready? Back to her Mother and all the other cling-ons, users and abusers

I don't trust any of them.

What I wouldn't do to go into hiding with her so I know she's have someone to care for her.

All but a dream, I couldn't get the local 85 year old with no teeth who hasn't bathed in 30 years to lay down and hug with.

Not that i'd want her too

Hope you are well

Miroslav

Anyway folks, I find getting up 11-12 and going bed around midnight enough most days. I spend half my life in bed hoping I can stay there forever, so it's back there I go now.

I hope you all have a nice day tomorrow and achieve all that you want to achieve and all remain safe.

Night :wave:

Stephb1986_2

Night Miro sweet dreams

xxxx