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Depression Support Thread

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  • Tulip
    Tulip Posts: 29,324 Forumite
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    :hello: Everyone,


    Hope everyone is well,I am fine today,I am off to my parents for lunch today :)

    RBK: I got my Nintendo dslite after christmas as a treat with a few games and yes I love Brain training as its really brillient :) really getting into the Suduku puzzles now too :) Never tried them before :)

    I hope everyone has a lovely day :)

    *hugs* to those that need one


    love and light,

    Katie xxx
  • BizzyBek
    BizzyBek Posts: 265 Forumite
    Hey RBK :)

    I have a britebox - it was expensive though I got it in their sale I *think* about £185 (looked on their site and they are £199 at the mo). A big outlay but I love it. It provides such a clear light. I have it on for a few hours a day on my desk as I work on the computer. It does seem to help me when I work and just make me feel less foggy when it is on. Whether it is the science opr placebo I don't know, i just know I like it!

    When i do get negeative feelings it is usually fear of the future, worrying my one support (my mum) may die - as my GP calls it catastrophic thinking. Almost that thought of not being able to live for the moment as too worried about bad in the future. It does seem to be stemming off and not sticking in like this time last year. Now, it's like theres an automatic cut off in my head so I can't even make myself think such thoughts conciously let alone consciously. I over worry that I have no family and am at the bottom of the generation rung so to speak.

    All our animals are cats - 13 officially adopted (all with problems so no one else would have them) and 3 foster cats - we specialise in nursing the ill/injured cats and in summer do hand rearing. I am well acquainted with litter trays!

    AQA is www.63336.com - where you can work from home as a questionr esearcher. Proving a very useful extra income and also very enjoyable.

    Enough about me (fascinating as I am!!)

    Bunnie, please accept a big hug from me. I hope the GP can get you into a system of help - perhaps a local counsellor or CPN. I would say come here and let it all out - bottling it up doesn't help.
  • queensway_boy
    queensway_boy Posts: 5,990 Forumite
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    hugs to everyone

    One of my meds is dihydrocodeine which is a class B drug (class A if its prepared for injection) under the controlled drugs act.If i go abroad can i still take these with me? do i need paperwork etc,fanks.Hope your all ok,xxx
  • BizzyBek
    BizzyBek Posts: 265 Forumite
    Queensway-boy: I *think* if you contact your GP they can provide a sort of prescription/note to take with you.
  • feelinggood_2
    feelinggood_2 Posts: 11,115 Forumite
    feelinggood It's good to see you posting :) How are things with you? Are you still going to the meetings? Are they helping?

    Thanks for the advice re: self-harm. Glad to hear that it's helped you.

    Nice to see you posting too :) I hope things improve for you, but I can understand you feeling like they won't. I was convinced things would never get better for me, but they have, and its a bit odd to be honest!

    I'm still going to meetings, and I've started voluntary work. Its 13 months without alcohol and cigarettes and 6 months without overeating. Never thought that was possible.

    Take care xx
    Stay-at-home, attached Mummy to a 23lb 10oz, 11 month old baby boy.
  • Horace
    Horace Posts: 14,426 Forumite
    Work trial thingy on Monday is for a job as Events Consultant (I applied for Events Manager and other folks who applied for managerial jobs all got given consultant posts at less money). Hey ho, I can walk to work thus saving money on petrol. I have to be at the station for 7am though to get a train to London:eek:

    OH has kinda apologised - as soon as I sent a text saying that I had won a flight, he was on the phone straightaway. Spoke to him this morning too - he's looking forward to taking me skiing in March.

    Went out with some chums last night which was fab, we had a meal out and a good chinwag back at theirs. Kept up a lot last night by one of the girls upstairs gawd knows what she was doing but it involved lots of squeaky springs and sounded like she was pumping up a rubbery airbed (the mind boggles) her chum was none to pleased and kept shouting at her to be quiet (hope to catch them in later to have a whinge and perhaps take some WD40 for the bed springs). I cant be doing with noise when I am trying to get to sleep and I dont want a repeat performance tonight because I have to be up at 5am tomorrow:eek: :eek: (need to get ready for work, take drops etc and walk to the station).

    Went shopping today - no need to buy food now for the next 2 months (unless I buy some eggs, milk and fresh veg). I Tesco'd and Lidl'd - even bought myself a shredder and a labelling machine (handy as I know someone who has a box of the labels that can be used in the machine so I can blag some free ones). I also treated my car - and had it washed for the first time since I had it serviced in July. I had it done at Tesco and they charged me a fiver - but they are good as you leave your keys with them, they move it to where they clean and then they move it back. A good wash, wax, leather, wheels and outside windows.

    Dunno about my eyes - I now rattle with all the steroid tablets I have to take plus steroid drops 4 x a day to both eyes. My vision gets blurry which is what happens when my eyes are getting used to seeing again with different pressures. I have a hospital appointment on 16 January so I shall wait and see.

    Feel tired now as all shopped out - I even picked up a set of 3 gift boxes for £1.99 in Lidl but as they don't look too christmassy I shall use them for birthday presents.

    Hope all is well with everyone?
  • Hi everyone

    I don't yet feel confident enough to post regularly on here. I do read through your posts though and am thinking of you all. I relate to so much of what is said on here.

    I'm back at work tomorrow after the holidays :eek: Tomorrow's going to be a hard day. Got appointment with psychiatrist on Wednesday and counselling on Thursday.

    DS, who is also depressed, is supposed to be going back to school tomorrow. He hasn't been for about 6 weeks and is getting very worked up about it. I can't see him making it myself but time will tell. Why is life so hard?

    Take care everyone

    Luv Jen x
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  • BizzyBek
    BizzyBek Posts: 265 Forumite
    Jen - well done for posting and jump in more often. As they say a problem shared is a problem halved :cool2:

    All the best for your son tomorrow. Does you have a support contact at his school - perhaps a school nurse or matron he could check in with quietly halfway through the day?
  • hi,
    hope you read this miro......ILL REALLY MISS YA.TAKE CARE AND KEEP POSTING WHEN YOU CAN.i, for one, am glad to know you and wish you all the best.i want you to stay but i understand why you need the break......please come back though ,cos we wont forget about you.everytime i hear about your namesake, ill be wondering if you are okay too.hope you read this, was late but didnt want to miss you.xx
    People bring great joy into our lives..some by arriving, others by leaving.im trying to be one of the former, so please bear with :)

    LOVE ME, LOVE MY NEWFOUNDLAND.:A
  • hi rbk,
    am glad to see your lovely post.hope you are getting better.darent say im over the worst of the lurgy....cos it has a funny way of kicking you up the rear when you thought it had slammed the door on its way out.dh is getting something similar so god helps up all!!!
    its my birthday tom so i hope ill stay ok.
    hi to everyone.hugs to everyone.
    ttfn.love ilgd xx
    People bring great joy into our lives..some by arriving, others by leaving.im trying to be one of the former, so please bear with :)

    LOVE ME, LOVE MY NEWFOUNDLAND.:A
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