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  • th_thankyou.gifThankyou everyone for your kind thoughts yesterday th_BlowKiss92.gif
  • Limana68 and to all th_newbie.gifs



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  • Belated birtday wishes to meyore and i hope your feeling better today


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  • Tiff_2
    Tiff_2 Posts: 3,046 Forumite
    Hi guys!:santa2:
    I'm hoping we're all safe and sound peeps?sLo_grouphug.gif

    Sorry for not being around yesterday guys, (whaddayamean you hadn't noticed?!biggrin.gif), but Mum had a fall. Doesn't seem serious thank God, cut hand and bruised hip and bruised you-know-what, bless her. Shook her up as you can imagine - not to mention us children. She has a gadget around her neck to summon emergency help but she'd taken it off because her 2 year old great grandson likes to get into everything and pushes any button he can find! She had to crawl to her little table for it and for the phone (handsfree), and got all tangled up in her oxygen tubes. She wouldn't go to the hospital to get checked out though - talk about stubborn! Don't know where she gets it from!:whistle:
    Meanwhile, his mother, (my niece, 5 months pregnant) and her mother (my sister) usually sit by and let him run havoc through her tiny sheltered-housing flat. I confess that a few Tiff words were said to them about my thoughts on the matter. Mum'll be 70 on 14th January, God willing, they know she's terminally ill and I think they need to be a bit more fluffing thoughtful to her!
    So that's made me about as popular as smallpox, to sis and niece.redface.gif

    Talking of which...
    I wish to thank the entire thread for passing along all their viruses through the MSE routes directly to the Tiffster!action-smiley-033.gifsCo_watchout.gif
    I wonder if this is what they mean by computer viruses? blink.gifgiggle.gif

    Yes, Tiffy has awoken with a headache, (due to only snatching 3 hour catnaps? :shhh:), the threat of a sore throat (could be due to all the caterwauling I do!biggrin.gif), tickly cough (furballs?!_pale_ - and the same to you missus!!! -), a cold nose (usually a good sign for Tiffy, but not today rolleyes.gif), a touch of earache (no - I haven't got a man!laughing-smiley-014.gif) and flat fur too (bad hair day?speechless-smiley-040.gif)!
    Therefore, I will not be held responsible for anything that I post today - or tomorrow too, if I can get away with it!shifty.giftongue.gif

    Tiffbits...

    - meyore - 11.gif
    MEYORE!
    Congratulations hunnie!sLo_hug2.gif



    - welcome1.giflimiana! Come in hunnie and pull up a chair. I hope you'll find all you need from the wonderful people residing here.angel-smiley-002.gif




    - To all our poorly posters - keep your germs to yourself! Oh - and... 45.gif !sLo_hug2.gif


    Right, I'm off to dose myself with smarties to see if that will help stave off the plague and for a huge catnap.rolleyes.gif
    I'll try and get back later to post properly to you. Please look after yourselves and each other. Tiffy hugs to all.sLo_hug2.gif
    Much Love,
    Tiff xxx
    "If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought." ~ by Peace Pilgrim.
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  • Limana68 wrote: »
    Thanks for saying hi, sorry to intrude.
    Wish I had never bothered.

    Limana, why do you think you shouldn't have bothered? :( ....I can understand you feeling you were intruding because we all seem to know each other well...BUT...look at when I joined MSE. Last month! ..and I didn't start posting here properly till a few weeks after that. You get to know people here bit by bit, I certainly don't know everyone's background..but I'm learning. I have never been made to feel like an intruder.Everyone here is so friendly and no one would want you to feel that way.

    Your story is similar to mine..in that my dad died suddenly 7 years ago, and that is when I just cracked. its been a struggle on and off since then and in July this year i moved out of my home and a marriage of 23 years to live in a flat. Think that was my rock bottom..and i wish I had found this site then. I too have felt terrible guilt that I couldn't cope, and there's so many people who just don't understand and think you should 'just pull youself together'. BUT no one here thinks that, cos we've all been somewhere bad (some still there) others coping better, others on the up!

    So please do post again! I am due back at work on wed :eek: ..been off since oct. . & I'm so nervous.

    No one has all the answers, but it really does help to know that others understand xxx
  • juno
    juno Posts: 6,553 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Well, I've got an interview for a supervisor's position. I'm sure I won't get it, and if I did I'm sure I wouldn't be able to do it, but I'm just really happy to have got this far.
    Murphy's No More Pies Club #209

    Total debt [STRIKE]£4578.27[/STRIKE] £0.00 :j
    100% paid off :j

  • shazrobo wrote: »
    hi steph, dont wanna upset you hun, so please ignore me if you want, my ex said he would change, he kept on sayin it and i kept on believeing him, til fiday last week, wen it finally dawned on me that he probably never going to change, and to be honest he has contacted me again tonight askin bout tommorrow night and saying we can put the past year behind us, but i dont think i can, he has caused me do much pain, that i have tried to commit suicide twice this year, and thought about it loads more times. think carefully about what your doing hun, your family will always be there for you, as mine are always there for me
    shaz x

    WELL DONE!!!! Keep those thoughts in your head Shaz and think that 2008 is a new start...for all of us..I for one will be glad to see the back of 2007 x
  • Hi, everyone:hello: just wanted to introduce my self, im shelley. i'm not going to go in to the history of my depression today, as i don't want to put my self on a downer befor tonights cellebrations. i know this time of year is hard for us people with depression, especialy if you have lost loved, my BF died suddenly last year and last september my mum passed away. it's difficult to get in to the 'christmas spirt' but i just remind my self that neither of them would like to see me getting down. chat to all again soon, shelley xx :beer:
    Back on MSE again! to take control of my finances and not let it control me. :T May grocery challenge £41.96/140
  • juno wrote: »
    Well, I've got an interview for a supervisor's position. I'm sure I won't get it, and if I did I'm sure I wouldn't be able to do it, but I'm just really happy to have got this far.

    Juno, well done!! It isn't easy to get shortlisted for even an interview nowadays..so go for it!! you never know and even if you don't its good experience xx
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Happy new year to everyone - I hope it is a good one.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
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