Depression Support Thread

juno

Miroslav wrote: »

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

First?

Ever?

Seriously?

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

Yeah I kinda have food problems, and somehow they always seemed scary. But I was brave, and I'm not dead yet, and I didn't find half a maggot or anything.

Miroslav

Stephb1986 wrote: »

Thanks everyone, we did invite his dad so he wouldnt be on his own, his sister has 3 kids under 10 and are right animals, his mum and dad are separated so that was a no no, i just wanted christmas to be perfect and now its not

i can understand him being tired but we went to bed on friday night at 9pm! i gave him my heart and soul and i trusted him now i have nothing left in me to give

he said he's the one with the problem and its not my fault, he needs to sort himself out. so i dont know if he'll want me back

There are two occasions we find out alot about people, more than any other.

1. Around Christmas time. When you find out what people are like with who their priorities are with and their reasons for doing what they do

2. When you live with someone - great when you live apart, what will it be like living with them?

Going by what you have posted, he agreed to spend Christmas with you, as long as his Dad could come with your family? Then he changed his mind without telling you and said he was going to his sisters - with you invited? But it would mean you not spending Christmas lunch with your family?

I think if he agreed to spend it with you initially, he should have stuck to that. Did his sister and 3 kids not have any other plans? If she was on her own, it would be understandable for him to want to be with her and the 3 kids as opposed to her handling them on her own, however he could have know the situation before he agreed to spend it with you? Was there a reason he changed his mind?

Miroslav

meyore wrote: »

Hi all hope you're ok.

Got to go to my Christmas do tonight after all. I drove myself in and my boss offered to drop me home, so I got to have a drink. Shes going to pick me up tomorrow morning so I can get to work. Very nice of her :A

Had some nice chats with a lot of the people I work with which was nice.

I'm pretty sure I'm not going to take the new job now. Suddenly they can't match the pay offer anymore... Oh well.

Xx

Sounds like your current boss got a gold star tonight and your new potential bosses a big thumbs down!

Glad you had a nice evening!

Miroslav

rose07 wrote: »

OK so I promised I would tell you about whats going on in rosie world.

Blimey Rose, next time do you want to be a bit more detailed and post something a bit longer? :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Have the best Xmas you can possibly have and 2008 be your best year yet :T

Miroslav

meyore wrote: »

Ah sure you helped me, made me feel comfortable, I can tell you're a nice guy.

I know what you mean, I'm just not the best at expressing it either. For some people those things are easy, but most people are just good actors. Looking at it in some ways, a lot of people are fake I guess.

It is hard to be positive when you're depressed.

Xx

Good to know, I do upset people sometimes with my style of posting and sometimes my beliefs, but never mean too. Glad I didn't do that with you!


Alot of people are fake sadly, so it takes me ages to get to know people.

Let's all have a positive Christmas. I know i'll be missing lost ones, but once I sort this awful mouth pain out, i'm gonna do my best for my flatmate and memory of my lost ones.

Miroslav

meyore wrote: »

Its comfort music, I was about 8 when these songs were in the charts

Well, i'm 31 and I remember alot of it.

At least it's not Mick Hucknall..........oh my, who have I offended now, I bet we have a Simply Red fan on here :rotfl:

Miroslav

juno wrote: »

Yeah I kinda have food problems, and somehow they always seemed scary. But I was brave, and I'm not dead yet, and I didn't find half a maggot or anything.

Fruit is great :j

Miroslav

Well, i'm up as woke up in agony

Have to get to dentist tomorrow and not let them fob me off.

The painkillers i've been taken were okay but flatmate has given me some co-dodamol she no longer uses and it works really quick!

Britney is on TV right now to cheer me up. I adore her but her 2 fingers to the papparazzi in her new song.....funny as it is, she does not help herself Just gonna make them want a 'bigger piece' of her

Forgive me, i've been in love with her for so long She just cheers me up and we all need something to cheer us up

Tiff_2

Hi guys!:hello:
I know it's probably a bit of an obvious thing to do,:o but I just want to remind everyone to make sure they've got enough of all their medications, to last for the two week duration of the holiday season.:rolleyes:

If you do run out of something, you can phone your gp's out-of-hours service or NHSDirect.

If you do run out and it is an emergency situation, please phone/go to your local hospital or failing that, contact the local police but only in a dire emergency.
Please try and avoid having to take these steps in an extremely busy and under-staffed emergency season, by stocking up now, peeps.;)

Season's Greetings and warm fuzzy feelings to all!
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Stephb1986_2

Miroslav wrote: »

There are two occasions we find out alot about people, more than any other.

1. Around Christmas time. When you find out what people are like with who their priorities are with and their reasons for doing what they do

2. When you live with someone - great when you live apart, what will it be like living with them?

Going by what you have posted, he agreed to spend Christmas with you, as long as his Dad could come with your family? Then he changed his mind without telling you and said he was going to his sisters - with you invited? But it would mean you not spending Christmas lunch with your family?

I think if he agreed to spend it with you initially, he should have stuck to that. Did his sister and 3 kids not have any other plans? If she was on her own, it would be understandable for him to want to be with her and the 3 kids as opposed to her handling them on her own, however he could have know the situation before he agreed to spend it with you? Was there a reason he changed his mind?

His sister has a partner and as far as we was aware she was going to her mums for chritmas dinner so my ex and his dad was coming to mine for christmas dinner since then his sister has changed her mind and decided she wants to do a christmas dinner herself. I was invited but obviously i wanted to spend christmas with my family they mean alot to me. Ive decided to leave him alone for a few days and let him miss me, i cant eat or sleep i just keep throwing up all the time (atleast i wont be getting fat) like he said the other week that i could do with losing a few pounds. i still have his picture in my purse should i rip it up? i just feel so alone and empty right now. ive even bought a private plate for my new car but thats not cheered me up

Hugs and love to everyone that needs it today i know i do

Stephb xx