Depression Support Thread

rose07

shazrobo wrote: »

feeling really down again, why does everything keep getting on top of me? why am i letting myself get upset over stupid things.
somebody from social services was due to visit me at 9.45 this morn and never showed, so i phoned them, and she forgot!! now to wait in til 11.15 what a waste of a morning, could have gone to supermarket while it eas quiet, and the kids were at school.
rant over.
big hugs to everyone that wants one or needs one. i need one right now too.
shaz x

I know what ya mean hun

Sometimes things just build up and up till we can no longer take no more. but we gotta keep on going.

I hate waiting for people and its a shame she forgot, but i hope it went ok in the end.

Hope you and ya kids are ok
xxx

Miroslav

shazrobo wrote: »

hi miro hope the tooth isnt causing you any pain today. dont know what to say bout all the different opinions from dentists, personally i think most of them are out to make money sadly.
my sons have severe ADHD and other learning and behavioural difficulties possibly somewhere on the autistic spectrum. they both require a lot of supervision, as there mind wonders elsewhere and they are unaware of dangers. very similar to toddlers, eg, see ice cream van across road, run straight over, they do not think about the roads cars etc. life has gotten easier as far as the boys are concerned though, as they were both permanently excluded from mainstream high school last september after only been there 4 days. they were home a lot, which was hard at the time, but after a fight with the local education authority we managed to get them both places at special schools, which only having class sizes of 6 has been brill, they get the supervision they need and i know they are safe. daniel's school is also resedential, so he stays there mon to fri and is loving it, giving me time to spend one to one with joshua, who needs slighly more help.
big hugs
shaz x

It has been hurting today sadly. I'm going to have to go back to the dentists which I loathe to do as last time I had this problem, the dentist said it would heal and sent me on my way after alot of sighing and groaning.

Glad to hear one of your boys has an expert school now, that should help no end. I bet you miss him all week though.

Does your other lad miss his brother?

Miroslav

Tulip wrote: »

Miro: Maggie from Casualty is still in fine form yes

I wish she was real. She could poke around in my mouth and sort out my problem and I wouldn't complain

Miroslav

Tiff wrote: »

Hi guys!

CONGRATULATIONS TO MR. & MRS. ILGD
ON THIS, THEIR SILVER WEDDING ANNIVERSARY!

I hope you have a truly wonderful day sweetheart - Congratulations!
Much Love,

Tiff xxx

Congrats ILGD!

I hope you married a human and not a dog :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

Miroslav

shazrobo wrote: »

hi katie, enjoy your karioke, and burger and chips.
ILGD congratulations on your silver wedding anniversary.

feeling really down again, why does everything keep getting on top of me? why am i letting myself get upset over stupid things.
somebody from social services was due to visit me at 9.45 this morn and never showed, so i phoned them, and she forgot!! now to wait in til 11.15 what a waste of a morning, could have gone to supermarket while it eas quiet, and the kids were at school.
rant over.
big hugs to everyone that wants one or needs one. i need one right now too.
shaz x

Totaly understandable after a break up that you get down and irritable.

Social Services forgetting is totally unacceptable!

rose07

Stephb1986 wrote: »

I feel even worse now my fellas christmas presents turned up before he would of looked dead nice in them. i wish i could just get in bed and not see anyone ever again. I dont know why he's broke my heart like this i tried my hardest.

The reason we've broke up is because i told him he was selfish and he didnt like it. I wanted him to come to my house for christmas dinner and he said he could leave his dad on his own so we invited his dad and then he turns round and said they are going his sisters and that i will have to see my family later on when i wanted me christmas dinner with my family. so i was a bit upset about that

Last week i said about going on holiday coz i could really do with one right now but he knew that i wouldnt go without him and he said no that he didnt fancy going on holiday when i said i'd pay for him to come.

He's been working nights for the last 3 weeks which ive found a bit hard and so he spent all day saturday sleeping till 5pm! so we couldnt do anything

I thought it was selfish so i told him and yesterday he said he didnt want to be with me anymore and that he didnt love me. I know he means it by the look on his face

Why do i always pick the wrong ones i wanted him forever but now instead i have a broken heart i have nothing left to give im just a empty shell

aww hun, have lotsa these





Christmas is always a stressful time, with wondering where ya going to go, and what ya going to do, must be hard when ya with someone deciding which family to be with on the day. Could you not all be together?

I guess if he has been working nights he would be tierd, i know when i worked nights i was soo drained and tierd. Have you sat down and talked about things?

You have to ask yaself is he worth it? and if so, can you see if ya can work it out? If your hurting soo much there must be something there.

WE are all family here so talk anytime ya need

xxxx

rose07

weymuffred wrote: »

Well here goes, my 2nd post on this part of the forum.
I lost my dad to cancer in July, I had chances to go say goodbye but because of where he lived (Manchester) I couldn't go back to see him as I completely hate the place and it makes me anxious when ever the place is mentioned.
I am now spending every day thinking that my dad hates me because I didnt go to see him, and feel guilty for smiling or laughing or enjoying myself.
As I said I dont know how to cope with xmas at all.

Sorry if this all sounds stupid but its nice to express it to someone.

sorry to hear about your dad, it seems this time of year is very hard for a few of us here.



But i want you to know that your dad wont be hating you, he was your dad, he loved you and he would have understood. your not to blame, and you dont need to feel guilty. I felt bad when my nana died as i never got to say goodbye. But i know she knew i loved her.

It is ok to be happy and smile, even if others dont, i know what you mean tho. But its ok.

take care
xxx

Miroslav

Stephb1986 wrote: »

I feel even worse now my fellas christmas presents turned up before he would of looked dead nice in them. i wish i could just get in bed and not see anyone ever again. I dont know why he's broke my heart like this i tried my hardest.

The reason we've broke up is because i told him he was selfish and he didnt like it. I wanted him to come to my house for christmas dinner and he said he could leave his dad on his own so we invited his dad and then he turns round and said they are going his sisters and that i will have to see my family later on when i wanted me christmas dinner with my family. so i was a bit upset about that

Last week i said about going on holiday coz i could really do with one right now but he knew that i wouldnt go without him and he said no that he didnt fancy going on holiday when i said i'd pay for him to come.

He's been working nights for the last 3 weeks which ive found a bit hard and so he spent all day saturday sleeping till 5pm! so we couldnt do anything

I thought it was selfish so i told him and yesterday he said he didnt want to be with me anymore and that he didnt love me. I know he means it by the look on his face

Why do i always pick the wrong ones i wanted him forever but now instead i have a broken heart i have nothing left to give im just a empty shell

He could have stuck to the original plan, it was unfair of him to change plans like that, however, if he's been working nights, it's understandable he wanted to sleep.

He may have over-reacted when he said he didn't love you. Sometimes you say things when you are angry that you don't mean.

Miroslav

Stephb1986 wrote: »

well he's txt me and said that he does love me but he's not in love with me
i guess its really over. he meant the world to me and now i feel i have nothing

I had similar last year. Not the 'L' word, but I was 'dumped' by note through my door after being told I was too good for her.

If it's really over, allow time to get over it - it will get easier. When he says he loves you but not in love with you, don't let him use that as a way to get back in with you when he wants too. If something is over, it's over, if it's not over then it's not. Don't let him pick and choose when he loves you.

rose07

gillette147 wrote: »

*Groan*

http://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/showthread.html?p=7295605#post7295605

aww Gillette hun

seen ya post, its such a shame that some people in the world are right !!!!!.

I agree with mumma, ive had me fair share of bad bosses. All you can do is weigh up pros and cons, and think is it worth the stress?
Im lucky i have a boss that understands atm

hope your ok badgie

xxx