Depression Support Thread

shazrobo

Stephb1986 wrote: »

well he's txt me and said that he does love me but he's not in love with me
i guess its really over. he meant the world to me and now i feel i have nothing

its hard isnt it, maybe he just needs some space. he says he still loves you, so there is still hope.
look after yourself hun, pamper your self have a nice long bubble bath, eat choccies, do whatever you can to put you first you deserve it.
big hugs
shaz x

weymuffred

Well here goes, my 2nd post on this part of the forum.
I lost my dad to cancer in July, I had chances to go say goodbye but because of where he lived (Manchester) I couldn't go back to see him as I completely hate the place and it makes me anxious when ever the place is mentioned.
I am now spending every day thinking that my dad hates me because I didnt go to see him, and feel guilty for smiling or laughing or enjoying myself.
As I said I dont know how to cope with xmas at all.

Sorry if this all sounds stupid but its nice to express it to someone.

Stephb1986_2

weymuffred wrote: »

Well here goes, my 2nd post on this part of the forum.
I lost my dad to cancer in July, I had chances to go say goodbye but because of where he lived (Manchester) I couldn't go back to see him as I completely hate the place and it makes me anxious when ever the place is mentioned.
I am now spending every day thinking that my dad hates me because I didnt go to see him, and feel guilty for smiling or laughing or enjoying myself.
As I said I dont know how to cope with xmas at all.

Sorry if this all sounds stupid but its nice to express it to someone.

Sorry to hear of you loss im sure that your dad doesnt hate you and enjoyed the time you had together. I know what you mean about manchester im just down the road from it and my now ex lives in manchester too. This time of year is always bad i know ive been down for weeks and now ive lost my BF i feel i cant go on

I hope your feeling a bit better

hugs

Stephb xx

gillette147

*Groan*

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gillette147

weymuffred wrote: »

Well here goes, my 2nd post on this part of the forum.
I lost my dad to cancer in July, I had chances to go say goodbye but because of where he lived (Manchester) I couldn't go back to see him as I completely hate the place and it makes me anxious when ever the place is mentioned.
I am now spending every day thinking that my dad hates me because I didnt go to see him, and feel guilty for smiling or laughing or enjoying myself.
As I said I dont know how to cope with xmas at all.

Sorry if this all sounds stupid but its nice to express it to someone.

I lost my dad to cancer on a July (but 13yrs ago now).
It's normal to beat yourself up. But try not to give yourself such a hard time because he won't feel like that - and take care of yourself.
!!!!{HUG}}}

BigMummaF

Evening Peeps....

Just replied on your other thread Gillette---unfortunately I have had more than a bucketful of personal experience with bosses who say one thing & do the complete opposite:mad:

The latest news on my bil that I have, is he is in the hospice....whether he'll be in overnight, or longer, or may even be home by now, I don't know. I just hope he has found some relief from the terrible discomfort he was experiencing toward the end of last week.

I have some folks I've stayed in touch with since my school days Rose, & I love it when we can have a cuppa & catch up. I'm not anti-alcohol, but prefer getting a_party_ buzz out of being in good company.

Have you thought about joining the choir at your church Tulip:think: with all your experience in karioke?

I see our Tiff is on good form QWB. Someone should have warned the other threadsters to hide the blue smarties cuz now she knows they've got some over there, she'll not leave'em alone till they're all gone

geminilady

Stephb1986 wrote: »

I feel even worse now my fellas christmas presents turned up before he would of looked dead nice in them. i wish i could just get in bed and not see anyone ever again. I dont know why he's broke my heart like this i tried my hardest.

The reason we've broke up is because i told him he was selfish and he didnt like it. I wanted him to come to my house for christmas dinner and he said he could leave his dad on his own so we invited his dad and then he turns round and said they are going his sisters and that i will have to see my family later on when i wanted me christmas dinner with my family. so i was a bit upset about that

Last week i said about going on holiday coz i could really do with one right now but he knew that i wouldnt go without him and he said no that he didnt fancy going on holiday when i said i'd pay for him to come.

He's been working nights for the last 3 weeks which ive found a bit hard and so he spent all day saturday sleeping till 5pm! so we couldnt do anything

I thought it was selfish so i told him and yesterday he said he didnt want to be with me anymore and that he didnt love me. I know he means it by the look on his face

Why do i always pick the wrong ones i wanted him forever but now instead i have a broken heart i have nothing left to give im just a empty shell

Hi Steph,not sure why your bf and his Dad changed their mind maybe the sister put pressure on them?christmas is a time for familys you said yourself that you wanted to spend it with yours.You could have maybe seen your boyfriend later in the day.If your bf had been working nights for three weeks its no wonder he was tired and it is not selfish to need to catch up on sleep.
Really sorry you are so sad though but at least by the text he sent you know he still cares about you.It is hard when any relationship breaks up but maybe he just was not the right one for you,i know it feels like the end of the world but it WILL get better.

Tulip

:hello: Everyone,


Hope you are ok,I am fine Had a good day today,sang some christmas songs on Karioke such as Band Aid,Eloise by the Damned etc I hope things will get easier for everyone on here coming up to christmas *hugs* Happy Silver Wedding Anniversary ILGD I have cleaned my flat tonight instead of tomorrow as I am out for a christmas dinner so wont have time to do it and I will feel rushed so I can have a leisurely morning tomorrow,even done the ironing too


*hugs* to everyone that needs one

Night! Night!

chat tomorrow


love and light,

Katie xxx

juno

I've decided to be more healthy On Saturday I ate my first ever apple, and today at work I had a fruit salad instead of a chocolate bar. I've also bought a lot of nice soft drinks so I hopefully won't be as tempted by alcohol.

Today at work was interesting. I was working 11-5, but somehow they thought I was in at 10 and thus they were panicking. And then we were short staffed so I agreed to stay an extra hour. I've also signed up for some more overtime in the new year

Sorry to hear abut your job problems Gillette

rose07

Happy Silver Wedding anniversary ILGD



xxx