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  • Spikey_2
    Spikey_2 Posts: 14,119 Forumite
    Why does it hurt so much when you lose someone who you thought was a friend?
    Use your judgement, and above all, be honest with yourself. :)
    I walk with the world & the world walks with me!
    I don't make bad choices!!! Other people just fail to see my GENIUS !!!! :D
  • Spikey_2
    Spikey_2 Posts: 14,119 Forumite
    Just wanted to say I'm around, but I'm taking a break from the thread - don't feel comfortable here anymore, so I'm off.

    Hope everyone is okay :)

    Sorry to hear that FG.... hope your ok ...take care. :A
    Use your judgement, and above all, be honest with yourself. :)
    I walk with the world & the world walks with me!
    I don't make bad choices!!! Other people just fail to see my GENIUS !!!! :D
  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    hiya peeps :hello:

    not been posting much cos really I don't have anything much to post, other than the same old same old. I'm absolutely shattered, 2 kids in hospitals at opposite ends of the city and I don't drive :eek: Uni is falling by the wayside again.. I shoud be there now but I just don't have the necessary oomph to get there atm, I'm falling behind with stuff and it just all feels like an ordeal really.

    I'm sooo tempted to go and have a snooze on the sofa but the guilt would probly do me in, lol so I'm trying to write an essay which is due in on Monday instead and getting nowhere with it.

    Other than that, same s**t different day, hope you're all fine, I do think of you guys even tho I'm not posting very much,

    much love xxxxxxxxx
    ☆ §ügÅr cØÅTëÐ pØï§Øn ☆
    Murphys no more pies club Member #41 :dance:
    12 stone down! :j
    Tiff Appreciation Society Member #2



  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    Spikey wrote: »
    Why does it hurt so much when you lose someone who you thought was a friend?

    I think part of it is hurt that they don't value us as much as we did them and a bit of a feeling of rejection I guess.. I'm sorry this happened to you spikey :grouphug:
    ☆ §ügÅr cØÅTëÐ pØï§Øn ☆
    Murphys no more pies club Member #41 :dance:
    12 stone down! :j
    Tiff Appreciation Society Member #2



  • EthelBloggs
    EthelBloggs Posts: 2,740 Forumite
    Just wanted to say I'm around, but I'm taking a break from the thread - don't feel comfortable here anymore, so I'm off.

    Hope everyone is okay :)

    Take care feely.. I hope you're not in the state you were last time you took off like this and that you're ok and no one has been bothering you.
    ☆ §ügÅr cØÅTëÐ pØï§Øn ☆
    Murphys no more pies club Member #41 :dance:
    12 stone down! :j
    Tiff Appreciation Society Member #2



  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Feel soo tired but I think I know why.

    I get happy and get deflated easily - I wish I knew how to stop it happening. I feel I'm surrounded by party poopers (not on here).

    I get got at for being miserable but when I make an effort, I get put down.

    I feel I can't win - I wish I had the courage to leave and wish I could find the right property that isn't surrounded by annoying/noisy people. It isn't so bad here but still too close to neighbours. I am free, got nowhere to sell etc but every time we look at a property, it is wrong.

    I have felt so unsettled since the holiday, feel surrounded by narrow minded folk where I live - I want to leave but don't know where to go.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Just wanted to say I'm around, but I'm taking a break from the thread - don't feel comfortable here anymore, so I'm off.

    Hope everyone is okay :)
    That is a shame, look after yourself - we will still be here when you decide to return.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    OK Feelie me girl.....what's all this about not being comfortable? Come & tell Big Mumma all about it---me lap is empty at the mo cuz the p-u-p is asleep on the sofa, & the offspring are scattered to the four winds till they smell dinner cooking :laugh:

    To be serious now, pm me if you want to vent in private OK?

    Just pop in from time to time if only to :hello: , & keep up the good fight cuz you're stronger than you think. BMFx
    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • BigMummaF
    BigMummaF Posts: 4,281 Forumite
    Hi Everyone. How's your day been so far?

    I saw some "handmade" cards in town today, & immediately told me muvva that they wouldn't be as good as Tulip's! It's amazing how much this site has affected my everyday life without realising:D

    Like I woke up thinking about 'Fly Lady' that used to be so popular on here a while back. No-one seems to mention it any more; I know I looked at her site a couple of times but couldn't understand the point of polishing the sink:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: Even if I did it before I went to bed,:undecided by the time I get up the next morning it'll be full of mugs & cereal bowls :laugh: For those who may not know, this was a US site that advocated doing things in very small steps, such as making sure your sink was shiny each night so you didn't have complete mess the next morning. You'd do that for a week, then perhaps lay the table too, ready for breakfast.....can't remember the details, but I think of it every time I DO clean a sink! It's the little things that keep me smiling...........

    Right-o, I'm off for now. Hope you all have a quiet evening, & as always I wish you
    Peaceful Minds folks. BMFx
    Full time Carer for Mum; harassed mother of three;
    loving & loved by two 4-legged babies.

  • Tulip
    Tulip Posts: 29,324 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    :hello: Everyone,

    Hope all is well.I am fine :) I had a lovely day,Feelinggood so sorry to hear that you have to leave the thread for a while but I understand,come back when you feel ready,We will always be here for you no matter what and support you.

    Tonight I am going to relax and watch the tv :)

    *hugs*

    love and light,

    Katie xxx
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