Can He Throw Me Out.

frilly_knickers

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

Frilly knickers eh? I would keep them up in future.

I don't think we are getting the whole story, not by half. That is if this is a genuine post anyway

Not sure what you mean, but I don't really think you want a blow by blow account of what we did. That sounds a bit pervish!

CH27

Find a solicitor that offers a free 30 minute consultation or contact the CAB.
Start looking for a rented house or flat to move into ASAP.
Do you have the money for a deposit?

ariba10

He probably has a replacement waiting in the wings.

quidsy

I would not be looking for somewhere else to go until I had sought legal advice.

Call shelter too.

FBaby

Are you living under the same roof still? Has he asked toy to move before and you haven't hence his resorting toa solicitor letter? In the end of he wants to separate either you or he will need to move out.

pops5588

Knee jerk reaction? Doesn't sound like that to me it happened at a Christmas party. He must be been thinking about this for a good month and a half if you only received this news today, which can feel like a lifetime when you have found out your partner of 15 years has been unfaithful. Just sayin'.

CAB and Shelter should be able to give you advice.

Tanswell88

Two wrongs don't make a right. Just because YOU forgave him for his infidelities doesnt mean he has to extend you that same courtesy. Your relationship clearly wasn't in a good place otherwise you wouldn't have sought comfort of any kind with another person- Maybe your OH has seen this as your way of revenge?

While his reaction maybe knee jerk, you either need to go see a solicitor or somehow find a way of trying to talk to him, Maybe an email? Letter on the table?

owen_money

ariba10 wrote: »

He probably has a replacement waiting in the wings.

Harsh.........

SavingPennies_2

Wow people are harsh.

I think he has overreacted, unless he was thinking of ending it anyway/has another woman lined up and this is his excuse out.

giantmutantbroccoli

No useful advice except to say you should get some proper legal advice. It doesn't sound like you'll be able to talk to him although it's a good idea to try.

I'm curious though, what were the repercussions of his 3 month long affair? I'm assuming he did sleep with the woman, more than once? Why then is it ok for him to do that, but unforgivably awful for you to nearly do something similar?