The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

nightsky224

Hi PM,
I'm new on here so not familiar with your story, but it sounds like you have had a really really tough time, sending hugs and good vibes your way and hope the break from the bleeding lasts a little longer

skaps

Hi all
Quick message whilst on way back to work to day ET has been completed. OTD is 16th.
Thanks for all the bladder advice. I ended up with a huge stomach and had little pees so that they could see the womb! Lol
I agree Emma it was horrible waiting whilst needing to pee.

Part_Mouse

Skap congrats on being PUPO exciting times for all going through treatment.

Nightsky,love the name. Its fair to say the last 8 years of ttc haven't been easy. Stupid thing was I thought the trouble was getting pg,not staying pg aswell,it hits like a ton of bricks when you finally get there,bean gets bigger and you get to see HB then it all goes pear shapped.I hope its not to long before dh decides what he wants to do,can feel the old body clock ticking.

emmaj30

Thanks Floaty.. Hope you are doing ok too.. Pregnancy test day is valentines day of all days… Whens yours??
Skaps see it was horrible!! .. Your OTD is a couple of days after mine.. Nervous times.. Cant believe you are back at work.. Feel awfully lazy resting at home though now! They phoned this morning and told me I had two more to freeze so am happy about that…The clinic have been really good actually can't really fault them no matter what the outcome is.. Ps my stomach was huge as well. Had to keep doing little pees and so wanted just to burst!! xx good luck xxx

Floaty

Well done Skaps! Hope your 2ww is stress free and sails by

Emma, my otd's a week today, the 11th! Am considering taking the morning off work - either way I don't think I'll want to go straight in to sit at my desk... Am beginning to feel really nervous about it, and having to resist the strong temptation to poas on Sunday (13dpEC, 8dp5dt)

Wonder_Woman

It's such a weird one PM, I think because I have had basically zero symptoms (and obviously we still can't tell anyone) it just doesn't feel real at all. I don't believe it's really in there

I am so gutted to hear you're still struggling with the bleeding. Are there any more investigations that you can have to determine the cause? What is the next step?

Hope you had a good day Skaps, congrats on your transfer!! Almost there now xx

Emmaj that's great that you have 2 little snow babies too. I think it's a good omen that OTD is valentines day!!

Floaty can I be the devil on your shoulder...test test test!!! :rotfl:

good_vibes

Congratulations WW!!!!!
Come on PUPO ladies x

Part_Mouse

Ww I had quite a Few symptoms before taking the testand getting my bfp.i does take awhile to sink in.

No more investigations,just being left to get on with it really.just started bleeding again,had my couple of days break.the bleeding usually goes on for weeks or can be months,bleed for a few months with v little break after the mmc.im still really none the wiser as to what's causing the bleeding or even how to stop it.

skaps

Hey all
Got the call saying we have 2 to freeze too.

Am talking to my embryo. I think I'm going mad!:o

Wonder_Woman

Skaps that's amazing, well done you!!!xx