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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • My FS told me they would only need to do a laproscopy if the HSG showed unclear results.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Tea I really hope af turns up soon for you.

    RG huge hugs to you.

    My dh kindly showed me a scan of one of our friends baby last night on fb.Weve been together for many more years than they have, why does this have to be so unfair.
  • Hugs PM It is unfair, I completely agree xxx

    tea Snap! We were planning to do the same thing one day. Your serenity spot does sound lovely btw xx

    Today's embie update - we're down to 4 going strong (one was multi-nucleated), they said they're all 2-4 cells and a mixture of A and B grades. They said it's all going to plan and not to worry but that's definitely easier said than done!
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    FP great news, I hope things carry on going well for you.
  • SewIt_2
    SewIt_2 Posts: 271 Forumite
    Seventh Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Love Actually - I was the same as you and my fs said that i could have the lap if I wanted but that no matter what they found the treatment would be the same i.e. blocked tubes, ivf / unexplained infertility, ivf. I opted not too as I wasn't keen on an unnecessary op. Might be different in different trusts though.

    How are my fellow follie four doing? I'm ok today, trying my best to get on with things and forget as much as I can.

    Frozen - glad you still have 4 going strong! Well done. Fairy - how are you doing? RG - has the spotting stopped? X

    Tea - I'm going to start a 'bring on AF dance' for you now. Get ready!

    PM - not long until your app, bet you are counting down the days!

    Hugs to everyone who needs them. X
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    Hello! Just popping by to say I used the Bree Taylor Molyneux CD from the playstore (if you have android). For the 2WW I found the daily affirmations both cringeworthy and really good. I would listen to them while on the tube on the way to work!! So you don't need to set aside 30 minutes or so in a quiet place.

    I've listened again recently to keep myself calm and relaxed.

    Still lurking and watching you all! Fingers crossed for the follie four, and for Tea's AF to show up!
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Sewit is your right I wish it was mon already, its coming round just not soon enough.

    Love actually I might well need ovarian drilling and lap but I already know I've got a blocked tube.
  • Thanks sewit and part mouse. But I think it was littleme who was enquiring about the laparoscopy and not me:)
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  • SewIt_2
    SewIt_2 Posts: 271 Forumite
    Seventh Anniversary Combo Breaker
    Ah, sorry I wasn't paying enough attention. Littleme the above advice is for you!

    Love - how is the DR going?
  • Thank you for all the replies about the lap. I guess I will just have to wait and see what the FS says. Not long to wait now and it will come round quickly as off on holiday Saturday for a week :j

    Frozen - 4 embies is great - when is ET?

    x
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