The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Wonder_Woman

tea_lover wrote: »

Yeah will definitely be glad when the invasive bits are over! TMI alert but I'd forgotten how windy cyclogest makes you...my main concern about ET at the moment is accidentally farting on an embryologist :o:rotfl::o:o

:rotfl: SO funny, I had this exact thought (but managed not to) :rotfl:

lisawood78

Wonder_Woman wrote: »

That's brilliant tea, def worth having the scope if you have four all coming along nicely!

Lisa I thought the same about our embryos as despite a good number of fertilised eggs only ended up with 1 decent blast last time and still waiting to see if any this time. Has it been that way for you with each cycle? We asked about it at review meeting and felt they fobbed us off really.

Just want to get back to normal, whatever that is, but can't get my mind off it all - not that surprising considering this has been our entire focus for the past 2 months. To make matters worse DH is away til tomorrow so more time alone to stew. Jeeeez.

Yep, it's going to be a very long 2weeks

No, that's the worrying thing I guess. We've had blastocysts quite a few times even had frozen blasties but even this time we still had 8 embryos growing within normal ranges for carrying on at day 3, it was only the embryoscope that showed that they had all done odd things along the way. Which I guess means potentially all of our other transfers have been faulty in the past. After 10 transfers there has to be something else we are missing I think. But I don't know if we will ever find the answer before time, sanity or money runs out

good_vibes

tea_lover wrote: »

Yeah will definitely be glad when the invasive bits are over! TMI alert but I'd forgotten how windy cyclogest makes you...my main concern about ET at the moment is accidentally farting on an embryologist :o:rotfl::o:o

That's why I had trapped wind constantly for 3 days.


Great News Tea and isla


Day 4 of 2WW, nothing to report

Part_Mouse

Isla great news,I hope all goes well for you tommorow.

Tea so pleased its looking good for you, got everything crossed for you.

WW the 2ww is awful, only ever ben in it 3 times in my life but horrid stuff.

Still can't get hold of the lady that promised the appt, will have to wait till my fs comes back on Mon now

isla_red

tea! :eek::rotfl: that's ALL I will be thinking about tomorrow now *chants* don't fart, don't fart, don't fart :rotfl:

GV glad you're getting on okay

PM I feel we really need to start a campaign on your behalf

Part_Mouse

Isla I'm sooo frustrated with it all its about 4.5 months since my last treatment failed and still a way to go from starting anymore. I'm really crampy so ready to start bleeding again I think.

isla_red

I don't blame you for being frustrated. A lesser person would have crumbled long before now. I admire the strength you're drawing in to keep pushing. Keep going!

Part_Mouse

I don't feel very strong in it all. Dh doesn't do fighting so I have to. He's asleep so when I go to bed I'm going to sneak one of the cats in, only thing is she's got a bell on so think he will hear her.

isla_red

Hold the bell so it doesn't ring?

I know what you mean, organising everything has fallen to me.

Part_Mouse

She's such a fidgit but gives the best cat cuddles.shes sitting on my chest ATM.shes my girl and always snuggles up to me.dh hates them on the bed ESP after the kitten peed under the bed again.woke up to her purring in my face this am.

Why is us women get to do all the leg work.