The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

tea_lover

Oh LA, am so excited for you!!! Massive congrats.

How you feeling today Isla?

Just had a 5min trip to sainsburys and a 2min walk to post office and boy can I feel it now. Am also very aware that I felt fine till 4 days after EC last time then it went v downhill! Not planning on moving from the sofa for the rest of the day.....Sherlock time

pinkteapot

*squeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee* Congratulations loveactually!!

Wonder_Woman

How does anyone cope with the 2ww?? Seriously, am 1 day in and feeling crazy!!!! I want to clean frantically but daren't lift so much as a duster...someone tell me I'm being ridiculous

Wonder_Woman

Oooh LA, huge congrats

lisawood78

WW, sorry but you don't. 2ww is the worst part and I would gladly have EC everyday instead of the 2ww. Just don't do anything you could possibly look back on and regret, saying that there is very little you can do to change things.
Deep breaths and try to take it one step at a time, day by day x

tea_lover

WW, I think you have to accept that the next two weeks will last an ice-age and drive you mad. Not much help I know but sometimes you just have to embrace the crazy. Everything crossed for you sweetie xx.

Hospital just called. ET is booked for 2.15pm monday. All 4 embies behaving as they should

lisawood78

Tea, did you have embryscope? Great result!

tea_lover

Yep, we are in the scope

lisawood78

Hmmm. Makes me worry all the more that there is something wrong with our embryos as out of 9 we only had 2 behave normally as seen on the embryscope. Something to ask about when we go for our follow up. Not that I want something to be wrong with yours of course!!

Wonder_Woman

That's brilliant tea, def worth having the scope if you have four all coming along nicely!

Lisa I thought the same about our embryos as despite a good number of fertilised eggs only ended up with 1 decent blast last time and still waiting to see if any this time. Has it been that way for you with each cycle? We asked about it at review meeting and felt they fobbed us off really.

Just want to get back to normal, whatever that is, but can't get my mind off it all - not that surprising considering this has been our entire focus for the past 2 months. To make matters worse DH is away til tomorrow so more time alone to stew. Jeeeez.

Yep, it's going to be a very long 2weeks