The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Part_Mouse

If only there's was something positive to cling onto it would make the journey easier to bear.

isla_red

I think the only positives you can cling to just now are answers from your FS and movement from the NHS.

Part_Mouse

Isla i can't even see things moving along.sat in bed in tears wondering why I even bothered getting married.

isla_red

Oh no, are things really that bad? Giant hugs to you.

Part_Mouse

I don't feel like we're singing from the same hym sheet, its me that carrys the can all the time and I'm at breaking point. He doesn't even know I'm in bed crying. He offers no help with the hosp stuff. He's not a talker and I've tried till I'm blue in the face.the constant stressis a killer. We've never had a break or even a honey moon.i feel like I'm drowning in all this.

isla_red

Can anyone help with an injection question? The nurse today said I can take the menopur and cetrotide at any time of day I want so I was planning on taking them at night as I start work early. However, she gave me my first injection of menopur at 08:15 this morning. Can I wait until 9pm tomorrow night to take the next one without causing a major mess up?

isla_red

Part_Mouse wrote: »

I don't feel like we're singing from the same hym sheet, its me that carrys the can all the time and I'm at breaking point. He doesn't even know I'm in bed crying. He offers no help with the hosp stuff. He's not a talker and I've tried till I'm blue in the face.the constant stressis a killer. We've never had a break or even a honey moon.i feel like I'm drowning in all this.

Oh that's no good at all. Is there any way you can even get a mini break even by yourself to clear your head? My OH can be like pulling teeth at times but nothing like as isolated as you are feeling just now. Is there any way to get some time away together to help you process this all? I know you have been through an awful lot this year already. I'm not surprised you're hitting your limit.

Part_Mouse

Isla we spoke in feb I think it was about trying to get a Break and more crap hit the fan so it went knowhere.i said then I don't have much left to give but nothing's changed.he says things but nothing ever comes of it.

I was only on menopur and took mine in the evening.sorry I'm not sure about the timings.

isla_red

Would you go somewhere by yourself? Or with friends? It might be worth getting some headspace away from it all.

I'm regretting not asking the nurse this morning. She did say I could so I presume it will be okay but now not sure. I suppose she did let me off the metformin so silver lining!

Part_Mouse

I don't know anyone where I live now and not so good on my own.

I'm sure if the nurse said its ok you should be fine, horrid though when you don't want to muck it up.