The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

Part_Mouse

La fab news,got everything crossed for you.

Part_Mouse

I've been thinking wether I even belong on this thread now as we're not having treatment any time soon and have no chance naturally.being in constant limbo sucks.

vesper

Well the hospital are officially investigating where our test results have gone. All they have is the initial gynaecology investigation results, so we both have to redo everything else, yet they haven't given us any dates for these, or referrals for the blood tests.
Wondering if we can get referred to another hospital now, but the next nearest one is a long way away. Really not sure what to do, every time my husband asks them, they don't answer.
I hate this. To tell the truth its ripping us apart. I hate the fact that for the first time in my life I have thought about being intimate with another man, any man, if it helped. I mean I would never do that to my husband, but the thought is there. Flame me down if you will, but I repeat I would never do that.

lisawood78

PM I think you belong here, your situation is totally pants and while you are not having treatment I don't think that's all this thread is for, it's for all long termers and anyone who is struggling with infertility and your are definitely on that list!!
Fab news LA does that make it a 4dt? Or am I confused?
AFM just plodding along also way as time goes backwards, only 5dp3dt today. My bottom feels like it's been stamped on by an elephant and I'm starting to feel negatively but of course for those of you who have done multiple 2wws know that feeling well!!
Just keep swimming just keep swimming......

Part_Mouse

Vesper really sorry to hear your saga is still going on, its awful when we know the people that should care should be doing more but yet are doing nothing/next to nothing.

I hope the infestation helps in some way although it doesn't help your situation right now.i to am locked into yet another battle with a hosp. I had to change hosp but found it 10 times worse but it may be better if you could change.

I totally get where your coming from with it ripping your relationship apart so huge hugs to you.

Lisa the 2ww sucks, I've only ever ov 3times on meds in 7 years so don't have much experience of it, got my fingers crossed for you.

I just feel like I'm banging my head against a brick wall all the time. I don't know wether to try and complain to someone different? IMO my fs should be doing a lot more not waiting for me to call ever few weeks to ask for news and telling my to get mor hormones from my gp.

isla_red

Yay star and angel Congratulations!

PM Sorry to hear you are still not getting anywhere it is ludicrous. I'm impressed you haven't staged a sit in yet.

vesper Sorry you are having a nightmare with your hospital. It's dreadful

Huge hugs to all those in the 2WW.

AFM I am now on 150 menopur after my scan this morning. Everything's looking good so start cetrotide on Monday before another scan next week. Who's all on cycles at the moment? I've lost track! tea, goodvibes, WW and who else?

Part_Mouse

Isla I did that at the beginning when I couldn't get my fs to respond and waited hrs to be seen.

isla_red

I just don't understand how they can possibly treat you this way. I find it utterly abysmal that you can be left like this while some NHS Trusts merrily fund boob jobs and all sorts. Nuts.

Part_Mouse

Ive generally found the nhs to be pretty poor interns of care but even this is taking the biscuit. Long term hormones to try to hold back the bleeding is really taking its toll on me psyiclly and mentally and its not like I even have a start date for treatment either or any appt to keep an eye on me.just been left to get on with it.

I need to figure out who else I can complain to but I fear that's not going to get me anywhere either.

isla_red

It's madness. You must be completely exhausted.