Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 11

wendz86

Hi all,

Hope everyone is ok. Sorry for cd1 maddywaddy.

MRS TM those cross stitches are lovely and a really good idea.

Sulphate - how annoying of your OH. My MIL knew first time we were trying and was annoying to keep getting asked. Don't think she knows this time although I am sure she suspects but she has 5 grandchildren already to keep her busy!

Not much news here, not very hopeful this month as think we missed the key time!

Off work today as dd has had a bad cough and isn't too well. Hopefully she is on the mend.

lilian1977

Thanks for the lists Kellykins xx

Beautiful cross stitching Mrs T_M xx

Sulphate - that's really annoying! Silly OH.

Hugs re the CD1 Maddywaddy - enjoy your pampering xx

CD6 for me today and my very first POAS with CBFM. A low, as expected.

Estateprincess

Morning,

CD1 for me please, at last! My first AF without taking some sort of contraception since I was 16 so this could be interesting!

Those cross stitches are lovely Mrs_T_M xx

ttc39

Hiya, sorry I not been on for a while, just took a rest from being so obsessive about it all.

I'm currently CD14

Huge congrats to the BFP I missed xxx

claretsgirl

Thank you for your kind words ladies. I really do need to pull myself together now though. I have a lot to be thankful for.
CD13 today so I'd better get going with some seduction techniques! ;-)
Hope you're feeling a bit better ttc39. It's difficult to not get so obsessive.
Sulphate, I think I'd go mad at my OH!
Love to all. X

Gelly123

Hi claretsgirl,

Please don't feel you need to "pull yourself together" - you will do so when you feel ready to so don't put pressure on yourself to do things in a certain timeframe.

I had a full reflexology session last night with a lady who specialises in fertility and we had chatted for over 1.5 hours about how things are, how I felt when it happened, how I now feel, etc. Was a bit like a counselling session I guess (not had one before) but with reflexology taking place at the same time.

She said that everybody has the right to feel however they want and will cope with things differently to the next person - so please don't beat yourself up. Everybody is different, that's why we're all so unique.

I went to see her again as I had a taster session with her back in November and having looked at my diary, I worked out that we conceived 2-3 weeks after seeing her - having been trying for 13 months so I guess it can't hurt giving it another go. She really is lovely and I felt much more at peace with myself afterwards and no longer "guilty" for feeling how I do having miscarried the triplet pregnancy in January.

We're doing everything we can to concieve again - back on the couples pre conception tablets, we don't smoke, very rarely drink (although I had a few at the weekend for my 35th!), cook healthy food and I'm back on Slimming World as I need to shed weight so there is no reason why it won't happen again for us.

The same can be said for you all - so please don't ever give up hope.

Love Gelly
x

xacesx

Here here! Everyone is allowed to feel exactly how they want, and sod anyone who doesn't understand stressful stuff TTC so we don't need any extra stress worrying about what people think, tbh I'm surprised my hubby didn't leave home last week, the mood swings I've been having recently have been epic lol hope everyone has a good day xx

lilian1977

What a fab post Gelly123, glad the reflexology made you feel at peace.

CD7 for me today and a high on CBFM. First time using so do we start BD tonight then every other day throughout high and peak? Is CD7 early does anyone think? Cycles are usually about 26 days.

wendz86

Clarets girl - as others have said don't worry about getting stressed out about things. We all feel like that I am sure.

Keep thinking i am getting symptoms although I know is unlikely this month!

chocgirl_2

Hiya, sorry I've been awol, thinking of moving to the 12 month thread but it's all a bit scary.

Just wanted to send huge hugs to kellykins as I'm in the same situation with the cbfm. Some months I get a peak, some months not. It's about 50/50. I am going to try and get an appt for the docs for April as they are booked up a month ahead and I can't get time off in March as it's year end.

Let us know how you get on?
xx