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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • System
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    Spinning Sheep and Fruball - if you have time to work through this book I would thoroughly recommend its called 'Re-inventing your life'. I was advised to use this book in place of CBT whilst attending a mental health counsellor - this the last step before being referred to a psych consultant - thankfully it worked for me :) I needed to find out who I was and what I was about :p I had a melt down :o

    I also am a firm believer of the amygdala (after learning about it on this thread) and the re-programming your brain :) (there is a lot of information on this on the internet)

    Using both of these tools and of course this wonderful, amazing, incredible thread - im learning more about myself and my triggers :)

    I try not to dwell on the fuzzy or lost memories that over-indulgence has caused - in fact I have started to note down as a memory enters my head so I can expand on it later :j

    Im definitely better sober than even a wee bit tipsy BUT that's a step too far for me at the moment - as many AFs nights as I can push for is my goal at the moment.

    Oh and Shaggy BTW - I was so, so, so chuffed at the Smiley I got for my 11/31 AF days in January...I have definitely joined the 'saddo' club - yeeeehooooo!!!!!!!!!!

    :grouphug:
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  • ManPants
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    So good day at work and actually managed to finish a bit earlier too!

    OH isn't back yet and cleaner has been in so house all nice and clean and smelling fresh! Sitting quietly in a tranquil gleaming living room with chilled wine and champagne sitting ominously in the fridge. God it makes me want to have a drink!!! Wish it was 8pm!!

    Now I should go and cook dinner for OH getting in in an hour but that makes me justify in my head having a glass of wine!

    Calling early again - 3/22 AF!

    Good Luck anyone struggling!

    Off for a walk.............

    SPS X
    Quit Smoking 12 years 2 months.
  • Barny1979
    Barny1979 Posts: 7,921 Forumite
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    3/24 AFDs tonight :)
  • debjay
    debjay Posts: 2,091 Forumite
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    3/20 for tonight please.

    Good luck to everyone for Feb :D
  • Hi everyone.

    2/15 please shaggy

    Love the feeling of not having drunk the night before too in fact its becoming quite the norm on skool nights now :D

    Cant remember who said it but I totally stand by the quote that nobody ever wakes up wishing they had drunk the night before :)
  • 4/26 please :)
  • AlexLK
    AlexLK Posts: 6,125 Forumite
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    Declaring 4/25. Thank you, everybody. Yes, I am very determined to get to my target this month. So much so, I'm more interested in reaching my 25 days than in having a drink. :)
    2018 totals:
    Savings £11,200
    Mortgage Overpayments £5,500
  • Munchin
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    Morning all

    2/16 AFDs.
  • 4/23 AF days to report
  • satchmo1
    satchmo1 Posts: 3,233 Forumite
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    3/24 AFDs for yesterday. Internet was down last night, so couldn't read or post on here, which I missed more than a glass of wine!
    What would you get if all you got was what you were thankful for?
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