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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • AlexLK
    AlexLK Posts: 6,125 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Off the mark with 1/21. :)
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  • sukeyboo
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    Chardonnay wrote: »
    .....I am starting to wonder whether it's worth bothering, you're right! I also agree what you say about wondering why you enjoy a drink so much at weekends - I'm shattered today and I'm sure what booze I had has contributed to that! It's really about habit isn't it - our brain associating the weekend with enjoying ourselves, and that seems to equate to alcohol, as that's what we've brainwashed ourselves to think I guess? I wish I could just not WANT to drink, rather than feel like I'm giving something up. I think I am getting there, and hope by the end of the book that I'll have had some kind of epiphany! :D !

    Chardonnay - you are so right - I am definitely in the mindset of 'oh, it's Friday time to kick-back and enjoy a glass (or several) of wine' and then it carries on into Saturday & Sunday :eek: - it has become part of my routine and it is very difficult to break that cycle :o

    Going to be AF today so declaring very early on 2/12 please shaggy :)
  • shaggydoo
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    Morning :hello:

    1 more AFD.

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    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    satchmo1 wrote: »
    I'm a little bit wriggly with excitement as I've just had a call about being put forward for a job, at a decent salary, in exactly my area of experience. It's a little bit more of a commute than I would normally consider, but perfectly do-able. Fingers crossed, as I'm getting a bit agitated.
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    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Roll up, Roll up. A New Month, A New Challenge.
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    30 days up for grabs!

    Everyone Welcome!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • macpep1
    macpep1 Posts: 1,749 Forumite
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    edited 3 June 2014 at 2:34PM
    Hi All :hello:

    I was proud of myself last night, just drank peppermint tea, DH came in around 10pm made himself a pizza & had a couple of beers, asked me if I wanted any & I said no. (I only drink beer etc when the wine has run out!) I put on 1lb at Slimming World last night so a big kick up the batty for me!

    Satchmo – Good luck with the job, I hope you get it.

    Can I declare an early AF for tonight as I wont get on later so 2/24 please Shaggy
    :TGratitude is the best Attitude :T
    Long Term Flylady
  • Barny1979
    Barny1979 Posts: 7,921 Forumite
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    3/20 AFDs today :)
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,871 Forumite
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    Determined to be AF tonight so:


    2 AFDs please Shaggy.


    Good luck with the job satchmo:) Good to know you're a strong candidate whatever happens.
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