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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • Poor_Single_lady
    Poor_Single_lady Posts: 1,527 Forumite
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    9/31 Thank you for all the help and kind words. It is so helpful.
    I've also told myself if I have 1 at a party it's not the end of the world but would be nice not to. Nice to take the pressure off and breathe.

    But The important thing for me is to be in control rather than being controlled. For me 1 is fine, 2 will lead to 3 and 3 will lead to losing track and something I will regret and not remember. But stopping at 1 is a challenge so easier to not have any or hold some to make other people feel comfortable and then put it down.
    2017- 5 credit cards plus loan
    Overdraft And 1 credit card paid off.

    2018 plans - reduce debt
  • Wanna_Bee_Free
    Wanna_Bee_Free Posts: 2,309 Forumite
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    Welcome back Green Karen!

    4/14 for me please Shaggy.

    I have a colleague at work who suggests a drink after work in a pub every week or two which often turns into too many and without eating I roll home drunkenly. I have tried not drinking on those nights using weight loss as an excuse and actually it didn't make as much difference to how useful/much fun the evening was as I expected. I need to remember that!
  • cathybird
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    Good morning all, 7/21 for me today please. :)
  • Green_Karen
    Green_Karen Posts: 367 Forumite
    2/7 AF days for me.
    I scanned all the previous postings I had missed briefly and remember someone saying they had a 'pink cloud' when it was all easy. Really rings home for me, thanks whoever said it, thanks x
  • There's a lot of wisdom flying around on this thread at the moment, thanks everyone. I might not pick everyone up on their quotes specifically but it definitely all goes in :)

    9/25 for last night please
  • sukeyboo
    sukeyboo Posts: 2,309 Forumite
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    Declaring early again for tonight on 5/12 please Shaggy
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,729 Forumite
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    CuppaTea wrote: »
    Great posts. Thanks guys.

    Going to call early for tonight, I don't want to drink so I'm hoping by declaring early I will stick with it. Trying to stay on the straight and narrow this week and no school night drinking.

    6/17 please Shaggy. I want to get my 7 days in for tomorrow.


    That usually works for me too. It's going to work today!


    Wasn't as moderate as I'd hoped last night. I only had a single glass in the pub but carried on when I got home. I did enjoy it at the time but regretting it now.:mad:


    6 AFDs please Shaggy.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Afternoon :hello:

    2 more AFDs for Monday and yesterday.

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    May 2017

    hippie.gif= 7 Days AF

    avatar.normal?dateline=1408479257= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.gifdaisy.gif= 21 days AF

    doowapstart.gif= 28 days AF

    fav3.gif= 31 days AF

    cloud9.gif = Target Achieved

    dancegirl2.gif= Target Beaten


    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers 6
    /15
    Barny1979
    7/24 hippie.gif
    CathyBird 7/21
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    CuppaTea 6/17


    Diyer 5/20

    Doshwaster 5/20

    Eltee
    /21

    ElusiveLucy
    1/4
    FakePlasticTwee
    9/25 hippie.gif

    GreenKaren 2/7
    Honey Bear 9/31hippie.gif

    JP1964 /31

    LoveASale
    3/TF

    Macpep1 /14

    Maman 6/10

    PollyAnna 5/12
    Poor Single Lady 9/31hippie.gif
    Pricey 7/24 hippie.gif

    ScatterBrain
    /TF

    Shaggy 6/21


    SukeyBoo
    5/12
    Toni'sFriend 7/31
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    WBF 4/14


    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • Toni'sfriend
    Toni'sfriend Posts: 4,056 Forumite
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    Another one yesterday so up to 8 now.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
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