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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • Arkers
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    ....getting that weekend itch...
  • ManPants
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    Evening

    Well I am actually very pleased to report that I am in bed early and adding another red one to my month. 6 AF so far please Shaggy.
    At 4pm today, I was justifying all sorts of reason to go to a nearby civilised hotel bar and have a stiff gin, caught up in my own snobbery to justify doing so but went and had a sun-bed instead.

    ElusiveLucy - Yes, Been to Barbados. Amazing beaches. We were harassed constantly though, to buy drugs and hire hookers. It is a fairly customary happening that we get assumed to be brothers or friends then the pimps and dealers hunt us out/follow us. Our hetero friends don't seem to get this though and its not typical to just "Barbs".

    Thank you Arkers & Honey Bear for the info. Have emailed off a request just now.

    See you all tomorrow night God willing.

    SPS. X
    Quit Smoking 12 years 2 months.
  • AlexLK
    AlexLK Posts: 6,125 Forumite
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    Not been on here in a long time. I've become a one glass of wine with dinner of a weekend drinker recently and have no desire to drink during the week anymore. :)

    It's saving a lot of money and much better for my health. Doctor is pleased, also.
    2018 totals:
    Savings £11,200
    Mortgage Overpayments £5,500
  • shaggydoo
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    Morning :hello:

    1 AFD for Thursday and an ALD yesterday.

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    AlexLK wrote: »
    Not been on here in a long time. I've become a one glass of wine with dinner of a weekend drinker recently and have no desire to drink during the week anymore. :)

    It's saving a lot of money and much better for my health. Doctor is pleased, also.

    Great news Alex :T:T Thanks for popping "in" and saying hello and letting us know how you are getting on.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    April:

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    Alcohol Free Days


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    Barny1979 22/24 yahoo.gifcloud9.gift4426.gif
    CathyBird 15/15 yahoo.gifcloud9.gifbiggrin.gif
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    Dansmam /20
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    Doshwaster 12/22
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    Ellsbel
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    ElusiveLucy
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    Gien 9/16 yahoo.gif
    Honey Bear
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    Mackeroo
    /10
    Maman 13/10yahoo.gifbiggrin.gif

    Manpants 6/TF
    NewMe
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    Piggles
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    Pricey
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    SandyPan
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    Shaggy 17/17
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    Smiley_77 27/30
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    WBF 4
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    Alcohol Low Days
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    Shaggy 25/22
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    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    May:

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    Alcohol Free Days


    Arkers /15

    Barny1979


    CathyBird
    /15

    CuppaTea /15

    Dansmam

    DebJay /21


    DizzyImp
    /28

    Doshwaster


    Ellsbel


    ElusiveLucy /5


    Gien


    Honey Bear
    /31

    Mackeroo


    Maman
    /10


    Manpants

    NewMe


    Piggles
    /10

    Pricey


    Satchmo


    SandyPan


    Shaggy /17


    Smiley_77


    WBF /14


    Alcohol Low Days

    Doshwaster


    Shaggy /22





    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    Roll up, Roll up. A New Month, A New Challenge.
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    Everyone Welcome!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • Honey_Bear
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    edited 30 April 2016 at 9:04AM
    Dizzy_Imp wrote: »
    I have had a day from hell. It involves archaeologists, builders, jack-hammers, car seats, tip runs, childminding and worst of all a cooker fire due to crumpets in the caravan.

    I have a big glass of Shiraz. Nuff said.

    Sounds utterly draining, Dizzy, so I hope you enjoyed the shiraz and that today is considerably better.
    ManPants wrote: »
    At 4pm today, I was justifying all sorts of reason to go to a nearby civilised hotel bar and have a stiff gin, caught up in my own snobbery to justify doing so but went and had a sun-bed instead.

    ElusiveLucy - Yes, Been to Barbados. Amazing beaches. We were harassed constantly though, to buy drugs and hire hookers. It is a fairly customary happening that we get assumed to be brothers or friends then the pimps and dealers hunt us out/follow us. Our hetero friends don't seem to get this though and its not typical to just "Barbs".

    Thank you Arkers & Honey Bear for the info. Have emailed off a request just now.

    Well done on resisting the gin o'clock temptation. It seems the request worked.

    Barbados. My memories of it are somewhat tinged by the fact that when we arrived there we had a Cape Verdian stowaway on board and were told that we wouldn't be allowed to leave without him. He hopped ashore one evening in Bridgetown intending to go AWOL so I followed him and eventually realised I was going to lose him if I didn't get some help. I found a couple of guys in uniform and explained the situation and moments later realised I'd let myself into a whole new heap of 'Oh oh ....' Fortunately the immigration officer who'd been dealing with us appeared about three seconds after my next 'Seriously, Oh Oh ...' moment and the situation was resolved. We left that night having been told that if Immigration had a working gun boat we'd have been escorted out of their waters. A few days later Martinique's population increased by one. I suppose nowadays we'd be accused of people trafficking. It was a long time ago but I've never been that tempted by the Caribbean since.
    AlexLK wrote: »
    Not been on here in a long time. I've become a one glass of wine with dinner of a weekend drinker recently and have no desire to drink during the week anymore. :)

    It's saving a lot of money and much better for my health. Doctor is pleased, also.

    Great to hear such a positive change Alex. I bet you feel better for it.

    30/30 please, Shaggy.
    Better is good enough.
  • Barny1979
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    22/24 AFDs final call for this month
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