Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! Part 4!!

Nicky_Noo_Na

So sorry PM, was really hoping it would be better news for you. My thoughts are with you xx

Part_Mouse

I had this awful feeling things would end up this way

After coming away from the hosp where I had my iui I felt very rushed and ill prepared to make a decision,we were in there less then 10 mins,that included scan,being told baby won't make it and being given 3options what to do next. That hosp don't do surgery so would have to go to an even further hosp or go back to where I used to have fertility treatment for surgery.

Anyway after experiencing a lot of pain when first getting pg I have been under the epau at another hosp who I spoke to today, they gave me much more time. The said the same it's highly unlikely baby will make it but as heartbeat is very faint I would have to end life rather than wait for the baby's life to end.they expect the heart to stop in the next week.im off for another scan to see if that's happened on fri then penciled in for surgery if its stopped, if not another scan next week to see then if its stopped.

tia86

Part mouse I am really sorry to hear what you are going through and shocked at the way the hospital have not provided any real support.
Take care and make sure you look after yourself

Part_Mouse

Tia no they provided nothing,they didn't even tell me 2 weeks ago the baby was small,I only found out last week.

Pondering wether to take a diazapam as feeling very panicky,had a few glasses of wine which of course I feel guilty for but with 2 different hosps tell me the outcome isn't good i didn't see the harm.gawd why does this have to be so hard.

sulphate

PM, thinking of you xxx

angeltreats

So so sorry PM. Sending you very much love x

Toooldforthis

Thinking of you PM xx

Whattodonow

PM I am so sorry to read this. I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through. I am thinking of you. How can life be so cruel? Wish I could give you a massive hug. make sure you and your Oh draw on any support available xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Part_Mouse

Wtdn dh doesn't do support from anywhere,he refused to come to the epau saying it was a done deal.hes gone to bed and in sat in tears the the lounge.first scan he came to and last.

Whattodonow

oh PM. I'm sorry. Try not to take it out on each other, you are both grieving and he will be dealing it with it the only way he can. I hope you can get support from someone else though? x