Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! Part 4!!

Pington

I'm so sorry to hear this

Part_Mouse

Basically there's a heck lot of damage in there already and any further surgery might well be a risk to far.

alioops78

PM I'm so sorry to read this (((hugs)))

purcy81

I'm so so sorry PM sending you gentle hugs x

chickpea

So sorry part mouse, it's so cruel after everything you've been through. You can only mkae your own mind up about what to do now based on the information you have, but...

I'd talk to the doctors about the risks of ERPC if I were you - I think the risks are actually quite minimal, it's more like gentle aspiration than surgery (I had an ERPC in August last year) and once it's done it's done and the hormones go so fast - it could take weeks naturally (I found out at 12w but baby had died at 6.5w and nothing had happened by itself, nor did it in the week before finding out and the ERPC.)

A friend of mine had a m/c in mid-Feb at same time as my last one and it was late April before her body expelled the last of it.

Medical management has its own risks as well - if everything doesn't come out, you could get an infection that could cause damage.

Sorry you're having to do this.

xx

Part_Mouse

Thanks all.im at a total loss what to do.i would give anything not to be in this position.dh has gone out.lifes so crule after 7 years trying

SewIt_2

hugs PM, so sorry to hear this . Can't advise re what to do, but just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you. xxx

Legendmum

So sorry PM hugs to you xxx

freshstart11

pm me if you wish I understand how awful it is, tried 10 years and lost my bean in Jan.

I agree with chickpea, I would consider 'surgery' xx

Paige_Turner

PM - I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how you must be feeling and now to be rushed into such a heart-breaking decision.


I hope you come to the best decision for you and remember to look after yourself.


Lots of Love xxx