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Less than 12 weeks pregnant club! Part 4!!
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Hi all, thanks for your good wishes.
Sadly it doesn't look like it's going to be good news for us - had an internal as I didn't have a full enough bladder. She found 3 sacs but they all appear to be empty although there is some internal echoes so she's referring me to the EPU via midwife for a poss triplet pregnancy but inconsistent with dates.
Realistically , even if my dates are a couple of weeks out, we still should have seen something so very mixed feelings at the moment and already plenty of tears from both of us.
Will have to have another scan in no less than 10 days but we'll see what the midwife says tomorrow
Any name - good luck for tomorrow, I'll be thinking of you
Hugs to all
Gelly
XMarried Sept '09, Me - 38, OH - 40, TTC since Nov '12
4 previous MC's, 6 babies lost so far :A
The proudest mummy - July 2016 xxx0 -
Oh Gelly I'm so sorry to hear that biggest hugs x0
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Big hugs Gelly, I'm so sorry xx:cool: DFW Nerd Club member 023...DFD 9.2.2007 :cool::heartpuls married 21 6 08 :A Angel babies' birth dates 3.10.08 * 4.3.11 * 11.11.11 * 17.3.12 * 2.7.12 :heart2: My live baby's birth date 22 7 09 :heart2: I'm due another baby at the end of July 2014! :j
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Gelly I'm sorry about your news. I'm still holding out hope for you and hope you get another scan soon.
Any name I'm sorry for all your going through. I will have everything crossed for you tomorrow.
Skint congratulations that's lovely news!
I've got my scan tomorrow and I'm really nervous. We decided not to pay for a private scan so have had to wait for this one so I'm petrified.
Hope your all ok. Big hugs to those that need one.0 -
Oh Gelly, I am so so sorry to hear your news.
Try and stay hopeful, I really hope the next scan is more positive.
Any Name, good luck with your scan too - will be thinking of you. Let us know how it goes.
Skintchick, absolutely wonderful news - huge congratulations!! :T
DisneyPluto, best of luck with your scan - I'm sure it will be fine!
It's my check up scan later on this morning, to see how baby is going after last week, check for a more consistent heartbeat and to try and date the pregnancy further as baby was too small to date last Friday. While I've not had any more bleeding like last week, I have been spotting every day (not unusual, spotted every day for three weeks before the bleeding too)... I am still absolutely petrified. Trying to stay calm and relaxed for sake of baby, but it's not easy!
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So sorry Gelly123. I do hope that there is some good news. x3 Children - 2004 :heart2: 2014 :heart2: 2017 :heart2:
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Oh Gelly Im so sorry. xx0
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Gelly, just to echo what the others have said...I really hope the next scan brings better news.
Any name...good luck for today. I was thinking of you all last night.
DisneyPluto...good luck too.0 -
Morning all, thank you for your thoughts and best wishes.
Today is a very strange day for us. HB & I have gone off to work although I'm regretting it now but I never take time off sick (and don't feel sick - just incredibly emotional) so I'm sat at my desk trying to plod on.
Have spoken to the MW's this morning - they told me I have to speak/see GP to get a referal to the EPU. Have spoken to GP twice this morning (he's been fab and extremely efficient) and the EPU won't see me for a scan for another 10 days min - to allow for more growth. He's going to speak to them again around lunchtime (once he's seen his morning patients as he put them on hold for me - such a lovely man) and will give me a call back as the EPU may wish to start monitoring my bloods to see if my HCG's are increasing but it's all TBC for now.
GP says that despite me being 8+4, I am really only about 5-6 weeks ish so there is still a bit of a chance that it's just too early - but he did say that normally you can see something by then, even if not a heartbeat.
So, it's been an emotional rollercoaster these last 36 hours - MW booking in appt on Weds, private scan last night - she didn't say much whilst initially scanning but I could see the 3 dark sacs, then she confirmed that she couldn't see anything inside them but that there are some "echoes" in the largest one.
Sacs are currently measuring:
16mm = 6+6
14mm = 6+4
9mm = 5+6
They don't tie in with my dates but having never been PG before, I could have it all wrong (although GP & MW confirmed my dates seem correct).
Waiting for the GP to call at lunch to see what happens next but we're expecting it to be sad news unfortunately.
Any name - how did you get on with your scan?
Gelly
xMarried Sept '09, Me - 38, OH - 40, TTC since Nov '12
4 previous MC's, 6 babies lost so far :A
The proudest mummy - July 2016 xxx0 -
Gelly - I have EVERYTHING crossed for you my lovely xx
I have another private scan ( I KNOW I KNOW but symptoms settled and MW wont get my scanned til 13+weeks so dont want to worry as really dont feel pregnant anymore! x ) tonight at 5.15 so scared xxOfficial DFD: Dec 29Challenge DFD: July 23Debts Cleared: 1/13Building EF: £20/£600 3%0
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