What to do..

SuzieSue

SimonSays wrote: »

How do I know she likes me. Its far off anything love wise

She does like you otherwise she wouldn't have spent time in your company over Christmas. No-one knows if it will turn in "love" (even if there is such a thing which I don't believe there is - there is lust and then loving and caring about someone)

The best long term relationships start off as friendships. Ask her to go to the cinema or to the theatre - something that you can talk about rather than to a meal as that will just put additional pressure on you. If she says yes, don't worry about love, just enjoy her company. She will show you if and when she wants things to develop by doing something like holding your hand when the time is right for her.

jellie

SimonSays wrote: »

How do I know she likes me. Its far off anything love wise

You've arranged to spend new year together - she wouldn't have done that if she didn't like you.

Just carry on being yourself and let things develop at their own pace.

Good luck.

SimonSays

She might be lonely.or no one else to spend this time with.

As I say she gets a lot of attention from the guys and theres better options than me. Just wonder why me.

heartbreak_star

SimonSays wrote: »

She might be lonely.or no one else to spend this time with.

As I say she gets a lot of attention from the guys and theres better options than me. Just wonder why me.

STOP OVERTHINKING IT.

Just rock with it. She obviously sees something in you that you don't so go with the flow. If you overthink it you will push her away and be back to square one.

I'm punching above my weight with OH - but he loves me for some reason so am just chilled with it now and working on liking myself more

HBS x

ViolaLass

At the very least, she clearly likes being around you and you're in a position of trust.

Just breathe and enjoy it. Don't overthink it, just enjoy it.

Jobseeeker

Snuggling up under duvet? you wouldn't do that with another man, its a romantic thing

SimonSays

I guess you guys think she likes me more than a friend then.

On my own today, She has had to go in to work, but had a good few texts.

SuzieSue

SimonSays wrote: »

I guess you guys think she likes me more than a friend then.

On my own today, She has had to go in to work, but had a good few texts.

Yes. As we don't know her we don't know what she meant by cuddling up with you. For most women it would mean that they fancied you.

How old are you both?

System

Well I for one wouldn't get under the duvet or cuddle up to any man that I wasn't physically attracted to.

I think she likes you more than just a friend.

SimonSays

She is 23 turning 24 next month and I am 26.

Have to see how it goes. I am a bit nervy letting anyone get close to me.