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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    Cheers pm, am thinking I either missed it or just not gonna happen this time. Now on cd30 and just -ve opks still. Would usually ov between 18 and 28. Have no idea if I'm waiting for ov or AF lol. Have a HUGE box of drugs upstairs and I just want to get going!!
  • vesper
    vesper Posts: 941 Forumite
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    codemonkey wrote: »
    Bit of Nightwish sorted me right out.


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    And Part Mouse, I think he's learnt his lesson now, he can't move as he's stiffened up so much. Wohhahahaha finally think he's been put off cricket.
    Remember never judge someone that makes a mistake, because in six months time it may be you that makes the next mistake.
  • onestep
    onestep Posts: 893 Forumite
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    Congratulations Peonie!!! Woop-woop!! :D

    Got everything crossed for you two other PUPO ladies ;)
    When people show you who they are, believe them the first time
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Vesper hehe at him learning his lesion,men really are strange.

    Tea I've never really understood the signs of ov, I hope one or the other hurries up for you. It's funny how everyone's so different. Only ever having a medicated ov or feel almost like I'm sure everyone who ov normally doesn't experience it in this way.

    Argh cats are fighting again.
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Tea just seen your on cd30, I'm think I'm on that of bleeding.need to investigate the cost of cotton wool soon.
  • MrsDavo
    MrsDavo Posts: 198 Forumite
    Congratulations Peonie!!
    So please for you and your fella.

    WTDN and T2D I have everything crossed for you both.

    Follie four - good luck!

    Tea - I'm on CD 27 now, and this time last month I'd started again lol. I've no idea what my bodies doing either and it's very frustrating so i can sympathise. Hoping one or the other shows up for you.

    I wonder if when I see the FS on Wednesday can I ask them to take more notice. Can I stamp my feet and tell them I just want them to make me ovulate!!! To stop giving me pills and sending me away for months to " see what happens " and then me trudging back 3-6 months later still not pregnant?!
    Can't they just monitor me and make me ovulate!!

    Rant over....
  • Part_Mouse
    Part_Mouse Posts: 5,527 Forumite
    Mrs d hugs to you, it's very frustrating isn't it ESP when were not being heard. I really hope your fs appt gives you something more useful.
  • time2deal
    time2deal Posts: 2,099 Forumite
    Tea. Do you feel the urge to kill your partner for doing such heinous crimes as leaving the plates out? And feeling bloated and grumpy? Normally definite signs of ov for me! ;)
  • MrsDavo
    MrsDavo Posts: 198 Forumite
    Very PM.

    I know you must be feeling worse than me because your having to put up with bleeding as well! With neither a GP or a FS listening to you.

    I think because we know that the problem is me not ovulating, I don't get why they won't just do whatever the can month per month to fix it? Why do I have to wait 3-6 months each time, with no monitoring to see if the pills I am on are making any ounce of difference.

    I've had a successful pregnancy when I was 18, no issues whatsoever with conception or the pregnancy, and I feel incredibly lucky to have that. To have my daughter. But now my body isn't working, and it's so frustrating that they just won't fix what we know is the problem.

    Sorry I'm on a proper rant here now lol xx
  • vesper
    vesper Posts: 941 Forumite
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    time2deal wrote: »
    Tea. Do you feel the urge to kill your partner for doing such heinous crimes as leaving the plates out? And feeling bloated and grumpy? Normally definite signs of ov for me! ;)



    If that's normal signs of Ov, then that's me today!


    Trying to hint to other half about having a nice relaxing bath together, it's not working.
    Remember never judge someone that makes a mistake, because in six months time it may be you that makes the next mistake.
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