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The Trials & Tribulations of Trying to Conceive when its just not happening (12m+)

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  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    I think I've been awake since 6am waiting for Mr P to wake up so I could do the test.

    Now we just need T2D and WTDN to get their positives and we can have a party.

    Mr P made a comment about me being a factory (for making a baby - in a nice way). Mr response: A very inefficient factory that would have been shut down by now.

    Mum says she knew it would be positive as I have dark circles under my eyes and she had the same. But I can't see them.

    Over the last day or so I submitted a couple of posts that did not show. One was to you Code, saying like the others have said, give Mr C some time to come to terms with the news. When I saw the councillor a few weeks ago she said something interesting. It takes women a moment to process information and how we feel about it but it takes men 12 seconds and in that time we have gone through a whole range of emotions. Including why isn't he upset, angry, etc like I am, does he not care? After those 12 seconds they are hit with our thoughts because they are not reacting like we are and they think !!!!!! where did that come from - women are crazy. What I'm trying to say: he's going to take longer than you to come around to the next steps.
    Pots: House £6966/£7100, Rainy day Complete, [STRIKE]Sunny day £0/£700[/STRIKE], IVF £2523/£2523, Car up-keep £135/£135, New car £5000/£5000, Holiday £1000/£1000, MFW #16 £2077/£3120
    MFiT3 #86: Reduce mortgage from £146,800 to £125,000
    Mortgage Sept 2014: £135,500, MF Oct 2035 Peak July 2011: £154,000, MF July 2036
  • Peonie
    Peonie Posts: 1,471 Forumite
    Thanks ladies.

    T2D - I got cramps yesterday not at the usual progesterone time so was convinced it had not worked. I've been very tired the last few days and very dizzy on Wednesday. Also, major PMS earlier this week. And of course, the dark circles under the eyes - apparently. But I don't know how much is down to the progesterone.

    The tests go out of date next month so I do want to buy more to check.

    I really should go and get something to eat.
    Pots: House £6966/£7100, Rainy day Complete, [STRIKE]Sunny day £0/£700[/STRIKE], IVF £2523/£2523, Car up-keep £135/£135, New car £5000/£5000, Holiday £1000/£1000, MFW #16 £2077/£3120
    MFiT3 #86: Reduce mortgage from £146,800 to £125,000
    Mortgage Sept 2014: £135,500, MF Oct 2035 Peak July 2011: £154,000, MF July 2036
  • lisawood78
    lisawood78 Posts: 3,884 Forumite
    What type of test did you use Peonie? I love pregnancy tests!! (That's probably why I could never hold off on testing!)
    2 angels in heaven :A
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    bfp.gif for Peonie
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • Mrs_T_M ♥ thinking of you & OH x
  • codemonkey wrote: »
    bfp.gif for Peonie


    You gave me a shock then Code! I thought you meant for you! I was extra giddy excited!!


    Congrats Peonie!!!!!
  • codemonkey
    codemonkey Posts: 6,534 Forumite
    danielley wrote: »
    You gave me a shock then Code! I thought you meant for you! I was extra giddy excited!!


    Congrats Peonie!!!!!

    That's why I changed it to add in the for Peonie. Not sure immaculate conceptions happen to atheists :rotfl::rotfl:
    Eu não sou uma tartaruga. Eu sou um codigopombo.
  • Peonie wrote: »
    It's positive!

    Yesterday I was convinced it had not worked. I think I'm going to test tomorrow as well just to check. And I'll probably buy some new tests as well.

    Yayyyyyyyyyy Peonie :j:j congratulations.
    Here's wishing you a healthy and happy 9 months.

    all the best for tomorrow T2D and also to WTDN.

    Hugs Mrs TM take care of yourself and DH.

    Peonie you give us hope.
    Saving goal for BTL mortgage - 28600 / 60000 ( July 2021) , 37600/60000 (December 2021) , 39300 / 60000 (august 2022) , 41000/60000 ( January 2023)
  • TeamLowe
    TeamLowe Posts: 2,406 Forumite
    codemonkey wrote: »
    That's why I changed it to add in the for Peonie. Not sure immaculate conceptions happen to atheists :rotfl::rotfl:

    It'd be one way to convert them :p

    Massive congratulations Peonie, starting as we mean to go on :D
    Little Lowe born January 2014 at 36+6

    Completed on house September 2013

    Got Married April 2011
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