Brother borrowed 20k without consent

NANANINANOONOO

Struggling :0(

Gigervamp

I'm here to listen if you want to talk.

crazy_crow

Hi Nana,
I have been wondering a how you were getting on and I am sorry to hear that you are struggling. I can't say I'm too surprised though. What you have gone through was awful and it must be hard to move on. The death of a loved is always sad but it must be infinitely harder for you given the the dispicable behaviour of your 'brother'
There is no closure for you.
I hope you get some comfort from the fact that you did everything you could for your father and that he knew you loved him.
I also hope you get support from your immediate family.
If you are really struggling perhaps you could try some councilling. Maybe they could help you work out a way to cope with what's happened.
I'm sending you a big virtual hug. I hope you feel better soon

NANANINANOONOO

Sorry guys...so desperately sad and tearful. My brother caused such incredible pain I feel this sadness will never leave me x

Gigervamp

The sadness won't leave you, but time will dull the pain.

elsien

You fought so long and hard to make things better for your dad, and then he passed. On top of the grief anyone feels when a parent dies, you also have all the aftermath of everything you else went through to deal with. Try to be kind to yourself and don't expect too much too soon.

lemonpopsicle

How are you Nananina? xx

NANANINANOONOO

lemonpopsicle wrote: »

How are you Nananina? xx

I am ok thank you, getting on with my life but missing my dad & especially dreading our first Christmas without him. Still feel periods of great sadness & confusion about everything but I no longer let those thoughts consume my days. My children & grandchildren are my whole world.
Thank you for asking & I wish everyone on here well xxxx

Little_Miss_Winner

Thank you for popping back and let us know how you have been. Subscribed to your thread from the beginning, so it's lovely of you to update everyone.

xx

ALIBOBSY

Like many people on here I think of this thread and feel so bad for Nana and her late father, so just wanted to post to her to have as lovely a Christmas as she can. Hold onto the close family you have got and try to put the others out of mind if you can.

Remember the good christmasses with your Dad and concentrate on the future with your kids and grandkids

:j

Ali x