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Weekly Flylady Thread 9th September 2013

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  • toochoosey
    toochoosey Posts: 7,371 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    I've just read the sad news :(

    Thoughts and prayers for her family and friends, she was a very special person who always had a kind word for everyone.
  • Such sad news - I can't quite believe it :(

    Toots - you were a wonderful, thoughtful, caring lady and I feel privileged to have known you. I will treasure everything. Peace be with you xx

    Thoughts and prayers for all who knew her xx

    Thank you AnW for letting us know. I hope you and A and W are well. Hugs xx

    L-L - Hugs for you too, hun. You know where I am xx
    "There's only one way of life and that's your own" - Levellers

    "I'm feeling like a Monday but someday I'll be Saturday night" - Bon Jovi
  • xx_Jo_xx
    xx_Jo_xx Posts: 2,858 Forumite
    Uniform Washer
    Hey all,

    I figured there would be a whole load of posts here about our lovely Toots, and I too am gonna miss her... But I also know from having spent a long long time on this thread that its a huge means of support to many of you, and you have the added bonus of seeing your house cleaner and more organised! Many of us have the good lady herself to thank for that!

    When something like this happens on the thread, no one wants to carry on posting and appear insensitive, so I have stopped by to brandish fluffy mules at all of you! :p

    Toots didn't want you all to know she was ill, didn't want a load of fuss and she certainly wouldn't have liked the flying to come to a halt... In recents weeks we've had conversations and she likes to catch up with how you are all doing, which I had relayed to her, as I think I have most of you on FB!! Others of course she emailed directly... As her health deteriorated she couldn't keep up with the thread but I did try to talk her into coming back many times as I know she missed you all!

    As a tribute to Toots herself, I ask, on her behalf that you carry on Flying and for one last week you can have a star for each day you complete..

    Jo xx

    Monday - Kitchen
    15 Minutes..

    Wipe out the fridge, note what needs using up or restocking
    30 minutes to spare..
    Sweep and mop the floor
    Wash out the washing machine drawer
    Got an hour...
    Wipe the surfaces, removing things which don't belong here as you go
    Are the spiders coming in from the cold, go on a cobweb hunt

    Extra challenge:
    Choose your messiest drawer and give it a good tidy, wipe out if you have the time
    Renew library books, fill in that form you've been meaning too, check for birthdays in the next few weeks.


    Tuesday - Living Room, Hall and downstairs loos
    15 Minutes..

    15 minutes tidying, putting away or sorting a pile in the corner
    30 minutes to spare..
    Hoover the floor
    Wipe mug rings and sticky finger prints away, wipe the remote control
    Got an hour...
    Sort out a cupboard in one of these areas
    Clean the toilet and sink
    Work on that paperwork mountain with 15 minutes shredding, filing, recyling etc

    Extra challenge:
    Locate wellies and waterproofs, check they fit
    Change pet bedding, they will be spending even more time in them now the weather is turning
    Check the prices of logs, oil, coal etc and place your order before the rush
    :)Sometimes lurking, sometimes posting, but always flying:)
    You are supposed to be the leading lady of your own life, for God's sake! - The Holiday
    DFW :idea: August 2013... Debt total £15,475.56 - Jan 15 £11,738.66 - DEBT FREE by 2015
    Feb GC £48.02/£250 (£201.98)
    :D I will declutter my house and debts :D
  • Beautifully said, Jo - hope you're doing ok xx
    "There's only one way of life and that's your own" - Levellers

    "I'm feeling like a Monday but someday I'll be Saturday night" - Bon Jovi
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,483 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Thanks for that xxJoxx and AnWsmum too

    Some newer flyladies may have noticed there are a couple of avatar themes.

    The purple stars are in memory of Money Saving Diva, who always posted in purple.

    The yellow avatars are for AnWsMum's DH

    Toots legacy lives on in her Toots list.
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • SarahShattered
    SarahShattered Posts: 2,223 Forumite
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    edited 10 September 2013 at 8:50PM
    Hello my lovelies.
    I've just heard the sad news about our wonderful Toots passing. I've done what so many others have done, and have come to the thread to post my tribute to that amazing lady. I miss her, but I feel better for having known her. A true angel. She touched so many of us, whether in RL or virtually.
    RIP Toots. You'll be sadly, sadly missed. xxxxxxxx

    ETA:
    Flyladies, you've touched my life in ways you can't imagine. You showed me support and restored my faith in people. The wonderful things we did when I was posting, they way we looked after each other, there's nothing quite like it. I'm sure nothing's changed really. I am proud, so proud to be a flylady, and always will be.
    MMSSB Club Founder Member
    'Mean Mummies that set and stick to boundaries' :p

  • Well put Jo in honor of Toots I'm going to gut the house in the morning. I'm lighting a wee candle here tonight too x
    I'm not a muggle...I'm just magically challenged
  • RIP Toots and much love to all affected by her passing. Some lovely words have been written about her x
    *If you have nothing nice to say... say nothing*
    "Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that." Martin Luther King Jr
  • Valli wrote: »
    Totally agree with this and what Piggers said...

    My deepest condolences to her friends and family.

    I don't know how to set up a candle page for Toots so I've lit one of Diva's
    http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=MSD

    One here for Toots for anyone who wants to light a candle x

    http://http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Toots
    I'm not a muggle...I'm just magically challenged
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,483 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Thanks for the candle page FFP; candle lit.

    Lovely to see so many old friends here tonight. You are all missed.
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
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