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Mr and Mrs K's New Journey to a Debt Free Life.

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  • AlexLK
    AlexLK Posts: 6,125 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    One of my best memories of my dad was us being in Cornwall laying on our backs in a field looking up at the stars and him showing me the constellations it was completely magical and an absolute one off, we never did it again. Only recently my Mum told me it was the evening of the first moon landing and as we were on holiday without a TV he wanted us to remember that night as special. I love the starry nights even now and I am really good at spotting the constellations.


    That's a wonderful memory. :)


    I'm fortunate to live in a place where the stars are very visible on a clear night.
    gallygirl wrote: »
    Crikey - that's impressive, the Plough is my limit, Orion's Belt on a good day (well, night :)).



    My son can spot those!
    2018 totals:
    Savings £11,200
    Mortgage Overpayments £5,500
  • AlexLK
    AlexLK Posts: 6,125 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    Wednesday 14th January, 2015.


    Dear Diary,


    The cheque has arrived and I've never been so pleased to be paying a bill!


    Overall, today has been a very good day despite a bad start due to my ridiculous sleep patterns. Work has been busy and Mrs. K. has spent some more time creating a workspace. I do wonder if I was the problem and reason she decided to spend time away but will likely never find out. We also both managed a no spend day for the first time in a while.


    Yours Faithfully,
    Alex.
    2018 totals:
    Savings £11,200
    Mortgage Overpayments £5,500
  • gallygirl
    gallygirl Posts: 17,240 Forumite
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    AlexLK wrote: »




    My son can spot those!
    You're obviously a good teacher. Adopt me and teach me please. Daddy!!!!!!!!!

    Alex congrats on debt going _party__party__party_. You need to get yourself on the DF Roll of Honour, then you'll get a badge & everything :).
    A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort
    :) Mortgage Balance = £0 :)
    "Do what others won't early in life so you can do what others can't later in life"
  • tootallulah
    tootallulah Posts: 2,197 Forumite
    Enjoy it, the rewards of hard work. I cannot recommend highly enough waiting for a fine summer night and creating your own memory of lying in a field watching the stars.
  • AlexLK wrote: »
    That said I know I'm never going to be somebody who buys their clothes from Tesco and drives a 1.0 litre shopping car.

    Oi cheeky! That's me, and proud of it!! (Well, Asda and a 1.1, but that's just splitting hairs.)
    AlexLK wrote: »

    Unfortunately I have not been well and it is on days like these that I consider whether or not it would be a good idea to bother my GP once again.

    It's not bothering them :) make them earn those lovely big salaries! Get thee back to the doc!
    AlexLK wrote: »
    I'm studying a History of Art masters part time, so another "useful" piece of paper for me. :rotfl: I almost didn't hand the work in as I don't think it was up to my usual standard but my wife made me. Anyhow, I'm looking forward to this coming semester.

    Better to hand in any work than none - means you don't get booted off the course :) Also, it doesn't matter what YOU think of it (because you think it'll never be good enough :cool: ), it's what the lecturers think that counts, and whether you've ticked all the boxes for that particular piece of work. Good luck!!

    Glad the cheque has been received - bet that's a weight off your shoulders! Nice work Alex :)

    HBS x
    "I believe in ordinary acts of bravery, in the courage that drives one person to stand up for another."

    "It's easy to know what you're against, quite another to know what you're for."

    #Bremainer
  • AlexLK
    AlexLK Posts: 6,125 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    edited 15 January 2015 at 8:11PM
    gallygirl wrote: »
    You're obviously a good teacher. Adopt me and teach me please. Daddy!!!!!!!!!

    Alex congrats on debt going _party__party__party_. You need to get yourself on the DF Roll of Honour, then you'll get a badge & everything :).


    :rotfl: I enjoy teaching, it's wonderful to see the moment when a new concept is understood by the pupil.


    Thank you and how do I do the debt free roll of honour ... I want my badge! ;)
    Enjoy it, the rewards of hard work. I cannot recommend highly enough waiting for a fine summer night and creating your own memory of lying in a field watching the stars.


    Thanks. :)


    I think learning about nature and the world around us is very important to a child.
    Oi cheeky! That's me, and proud of it!! (Well, Asda and a 1.1, but that's just splitting hairs.)

    Didn't say there was anything wrong with it. A *really* frugal life is just not for me. :)


    It's not bothering them :) make them earn those lovely big salaries! Get thee back to the doc!



    It's wasting their time when I fail to do what they tell me. My biggest issues are my sleep problems which they've already stated they will not help me with.


    Better to hand in any work than none - means you don't get booted off the course :) Also, it doesn't matter what YOU think of it (because you think it'll never be good enough :cool: ), it's what the lecturers think that counts, and whether you've ticked all the boxes for that particular piece of work. Good luck!!

    Glad the cheque has been received - bet that's a weight off your shoulders! Nice work Alex :)

    HBS x



    Mrs. K. ... is that you? :eek:


    Seriously, my wife said the same thing and I know she's right. The work wasn't horrendous I don't suppose but I hadn't quite realised just how different studying would be with a family and work and other things to think about than just reading books and having a good time. I'm mainly worried the piece of work will taint my previously exemplary academic record. :(


    Thanks, I'm glad it's all over with to be honest.
    2018 totals:
    Savings £11,200
    Mortgage Overpayments £5,500
  • gallygirl
    gallygirl Posts: 17,240 Forumite
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    Thank you and how do I do the debt free roll of honour ... I want my badge! ;)
    Post on here:
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/291326
    Mrs. K. ... is that you? :eek:


    Seriously, my wife said the same thing and I know she's right. The work wasn't horrendous I don't suppose but I hadn't quite realised just how different studying would be with a family and work and other things to think about than just reading books and having a good time. I'm mainly worried the piece of work will taint my previously exemplary academic record. :(

    Not often I agree with Mrs K but I do this time :rotfl:
    Thanks, I'm glad it's all over with to be honest.

    Em - doesn't it start again soon :).
    A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort
    :) Mortgage Balance = £0 :)
    "Do what others won't early in life so you can do what others can't later in life"
  • AlexLK
    AlexLK Posts: 6,125 Forumite
    Debt-free and Proud!
    edited 16 January 2015 at 12:27AM
    Doesn't what start again soon? The course, if so, yes. If you mean getting myself into more debt, no thanks. :)


    ETA: Applied for the badge ....
    2018 totals:
    Savings £11,200
    Mortgage Overpayments £5,500
  • I see a badge! :D

    And so it might not get perfect marks. *shrug* it'll get GOOD marks, and you're being a husband and father and working alongside studying this time, as you so rightly point out. You're setting a great example for Little K by doing this :)

    HBS x
    "I believe in ordinary acts of bravery, in the courage that drives one person to stand up for another."

    "It's easy to know what you're against, quite another to know what you're for."

    #Bremainer
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,955 Forumite
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    I see a badge! :T

    And so it might not get perfect marks. *shrug* it'll get GOOD marks, and you're being a husband and father and working alongside studying this time, as you so rightly point out. You're setting a great example for Little K by doing this.

    HBS x


    That's great news about the badge Alex.:T I was amused by mse Badger. You've certainly been badgered on this thread and taken it all in good part. You're a star!!


    I think both you and MrsK are setting LittleK an excellent example. For him to see daddy doing 'work' reinforces lifelong learning and MrsK setting up her own workstation gives all the right messages.
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