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Buyer demanded postage refund, left neg feedback when not given, what to do?

Hi,

I sold a couple of items to the same buyer, I gave postage discount, yet they contacted me saying they wanted to pay less. I did not agree to a greater discount, and then they paid.

After receiving the items, they contacted me again demanding a refund of postage, 'before they gave feedback' (so obviously threatening). I said I'd give a full refund if the items were returned.

No word back, and now two negative feedback marks in my profile. I hardly ever sell stuff on eBay, so it is quite annoying to have this. What can I do?

Thanks!
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  • quidsy
    quidsy Posts: 2,181 Forumite
    raise a dispute. also reply to the feedback stating your side.
    I don't respond to stupid so that's why I am ignoring you.

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  • theonlywayisup
    theonlywayisup Posts: 16,032 Forumite
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    quidsy wrote: »
    raise a dispute. also reply to the feedback stating your side.

    What dispute?

    If you feel the messages fall into 'feedback extortion' then ring Ebay and ask them to review them.
  • steveE2
    steveE2 Posts: 1,329 Forumite
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    When you combined postage was it still over stamp price shown?
  • quidsy
    quidsy Posts: 2,181 Forumite
    edited 12 August 2013 at 2:09PM
    What dispute?

    If you feel the messages fall into 'feedback extortion' then ring Ebay and ask them to review them.

    http://ocsnext.ebay.co.uk/ocs/cusr?&query=1428
    I don't respond to stupid so that's why I am ignoring you.

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  • theonlywayisup
    theonlywayisup Posts: 16,032 Forumite
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    quidsy wrote: »

    Yes, as I said.

    But you said....'raise a dispute'......what dispute?

    The OP is the seller.
  • quidsy
    quidsy Posts: 2,181 Forumite
    "sigh" The dispute is that the buyer has left false negative feedback.

    The op can raise a dispute to ebay over the false negative feedback.
    I don't respond to stupid so that's why I am ignoring you.

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  • mapcr77
    mapcr77 Posts: 668 Forumite
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    edited 12 August 2013 at 2:32PM
    Thanks all for your responses. I reported the buyer through the option you get in the selling menu. Is it still advisable to ring? Is eBay's customer service good?

    Also, how do you respond to the feedback? Looks like as a seller you can only give positive feedback, which I obviously wouldn't want to do!
  • celestius
    celestius Posts: 1,090 Forumite
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    You can respond to the feedback she left you, do a quick search in customer support.
    Did you charge much postage over what the P.O. charged you?
  • celestius
    celestius Posts: 1,090 Forumite
    PPI Party Pooper
    quidsy wrote: »
    "sigh" The dispute is that the buyer has left false negative feedback.

    The op can raise a dispute to ebay over the false negative feedback.

    It is not false negative.
    Buyer was unhappy with transaction. 2 negs is very harsh though.
    It's the DSR the seller should worry about!
  • prowla
    prowla Posts: 14,183 Forumite
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    P&P should cover the seller's costs (ie. postage, packing, and travel to the PO), but shouldn't be an additional profit.

    If that's what was charged then it's unjustified, but if the amount charged was (significantly) more, then it's valid feedback.
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