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Am i getting enough?????

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  • elly68
    elly68 Posts: 2,556 Forumite
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    have to say this is the best laugh ive had for a while,a brainy/historic debate interlaced with good mumsy advice and some horny bloke talk ,ps op that above sounds like u organised a threesome for your oh lol.
    so to further the debate how long should it last im up for the 2-3 x a week but jeez 2-3 hrs now there will be some who will say well done him but to be honest 2/3 i have work the next day lol
    So finally debt free and it feels amazing however continuing here to stay debt free.Next declutter house and body and finally swim under that waterfall x
  • Read this on t'internet:
    "Men only want two things - sex and food. So if you see one without an erection, offer him a sandwich"

    Looking around at the majority I reckon this is where it's all going wrong; perhaps it should be:
    "If you see one not eating, give him an erection":rotfl:
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  • lostinrates
    lostinrates Posts: 55,283 Forumite
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    Read this on t'internet:
    "Men only want two things - sex and food. So if you see one without an erection, offer him a sandwich"

    Looking around at the majority I reckon this is where it's all going wrong; perhaps it should be:
    "If you see one not eating, give him an erection":rotfl:

    On Mse there is a LOT of talk about food.....a grocery shopping board and old style......but little of the other. Maybe most people are feeding their menfolk:D
  • moneypuddle
    moneypuddle Posts: 936 Forumite
    For us about 3/4 times a week is normal. We're 27 and 34 and had a baby last year. The only time when we had no sex at all was the last month of my pregnancy and the first two months after the baby was born. We're back to normal now but I think it helps that we have a good sleeping baby so have never really had that knackered phase. We both work full time (OH 5 days and week, and me 4 days a week). We also have a week off each month, during period week, but that has now affectionately been renamed 'blowy week'
  • Mankysteve
    Mankysteve Posts: 4,257 Forumite
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    mostly it is first thing in the morning, hmm not a lot I know but I wondered what is average and is morning more common than night time routine?



    A man's sex drive hormones tend to be highest first thing in morning.

    There's allways Anne summers ;-)
  • No way men like it every other day, I would most likely have divorced you by now or made you buck up your ideas in the bedroom.

    Anne summers good advice, make an effort!
  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere Posts: 752 Forumite
    I like sex at least once a day, sometimes more. However, DH is usually snoring...

    Thank goodness evolution included masturbation...

    nb. I am 61 now. IMHO age is not a factor.
  • So kids are what sap people of their sex lives? Glad I never bothered with them then. :rotfl:

    Saying that, I should clarify - my OH has kids. I don't.


    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    I have to agree...My 'Other' half has 3 kids.....

    I'm still a young (Well 'ISH'), free, bachelor ...... lol :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    Just DON't Tell the Mrs....:)
    :jTo be Young AGAIN!!!!...what a wonderfull thought!!!!!:rolleyes:
  • ash28
    ash28 Posts: 1,789 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee! Debt-free and Proud!
    Ok a quick question and I know everyone is different but me and OH late 30's been in relationship 8 years and have nuptials approx twice a month at the moment and mostly it is first thing in the morning, hmm not a lot I know but I wondered what is average and is morning more common than night time routine? Both working full time and no kids just us so what's our excuse?

    One man's feast is another man's famine.......

    I don't think there is an average, every couple is different. We have it more often than you and we're in our 50s and in our 30s it was 4 or 5 times a week. I have friends of our age who have stopped having it altogether....

    As long as you're both happy with the frequency/quality then there is no right amount.
  • mrcow
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    Pechow wrote: »
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    "One day I realised that when you are lying in your grave, it's no good saying, "I was too shy, too frightened."
    Because by then you've blown your chances. That's it."
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