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Weekly Flylady Thread 16th June 2013

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  • bossymoo
    bossymoo Posts: 6,924 Forumite
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    I knew I'd have to chase DD back to bed a few times tonight ;) said I'd take them swimming tomorrow if they are nice (and she's stopped screaming). She said "I not do thcreaming mummy, cos you will get sad and it hurts my ears" :rotfl:

    Will just put my papers away then I might go up for a potter. Will look through bathroom baskets to see if anything is flingable, and will look through my toiletry stash too. I've just decanted my last bottle of shampoo (buy big ones but use smaller bottle in shower caddy) :T I had so much, I haven't actually bought any (except kids ones) since before DH got poorly :o so nearly two years... Think I had about 5 of those big bottles of tr3semme!

    Question: I am wondering if its time I had a different hairstyle? Seen some pictures from last weekend, and I look horrendous. I'm with my two cousins, both very petite and very into making the best of themselves. I look a frump next to them :( don't get me wrong, it's not an aging thing, were similar ages, I'm the youngest and close up look quite a few years younger (both been heavy smokers in their time). I just feel, well, dull. All the women on my mums side are 5'2" or less and I'm a chunky 5'8" with dull brown shoulder length hair in no particular style. Have layers because its thick, but doesn't really look styled or polished.

    I've lost weight, but still big (16-18, and look huge in those pics) and I just feel on holiday I will look like an enormous dull giant next to all the pretty petite ones :( crisis of confidence!

    Do I get my hair lopped off in an inverted bob and stop trimming my fringe and sweep it to the side?

    Help! Lol.
    Bossymoo

    Away with the fairies :beer:
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    Bossy.. try speaking to a hairdresser about what will suit the shape of your face.. and I am certain you aren't as dull or giantesque as you think you are. xxx But I am totally getting the frumpy feeling.. I am there!
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
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  • mrs-moneypenny
    mrs-moneypenny Posts: 15,519 Forumite
    morning all
    hope everyone is well
    hugs good wishes and positive vibes for all.
    Didnt get back in yesterday as DS1 was on puter all afternoon then we had tickets to see spike island free so full day.
    Dr said i have got shingles shes never seen it on a knee before, as ive been working all though having it (its 4 weeks since i first mentioned the rash to the dr according to my notes) she said i can stay at work. not now going on trip but can continue working as normal at least i know now why ive been feeling rubbish and achy recently.
    Need to declutter boys and get on with something i suppose

    Living room, & Hall
    Dust the electricals
    Wipe some paintwork, skirting boards, behind the toilet/sink


    Kitchen and Dining Room
    mop the floor


    Master Bedroom and Landing
    Hoover the stairs, landing and bedroom
    Wipe the window ledges
    Dust any dusty bits
    Arrange for boiler service


    Thursday - Bathroom
    Only got 15 minutes
    Clean toilet and sink
    30 minutes to spare
    [STRIKE]Change the towels[/STRIKE]
    Hoover and wipe the floor
    Wipe the splashbacks
    Got an hour
    Clean out the plug holes
    Shine the mirrors
    Clean the bath and shower
    Extras
    HHPaperwork
    Declultter a drawer


    Friday - Children's Bedrooms or spare rooms/rooms of Doom
    Only got 15 minutes
    Strip, wash and replace bedding
    30 minutes to spare
    Hoover floor
    [STRIKE]HH tidying or decluttering[/STRIKE]
    Got an hour
    Wipe the skirting boards
    [STRIKE]Wash an item of soft furnishing[/STRIKE]s
    Clear then dust a flat surface (or 2)
    Extras
    Find a new recipe to use
    Sort out your receipts/purse
    [STRIKE]Check dates on passports/MoTs/insurance etc[/STRIKE]


    my list
    [STRIKE]remind DS1 music exam piece[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]remind DS1 appt with bank[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]scouts canoeing for DS2 take correct stuff[/STRIKE]
    sort posters out for martial arts club
    [STRIKE]govs meeting[/STRIKE]
    frame tinkerbell
    cut front hedge
    tidy front garden
    [STRIKE]get mil to chase up injection appts[/STRIKE]
    hair cut & colour
    [STRIKE]cinema preview (free)[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]day out with school[/STRIKE]not going now:(
    [STRIKE]DO some ironing[/STRIKE]
    do some MORE ironing
    find wood sort out shelves for spare room
    trim park side hedge
    SPC~12 ot 124

    In a world that has decided that it's going to lose its mind, be more kind my friend, try to Be More Kind
  • bossymoo
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    pigpen wrote: »
    Bossy.. try speaking to a hairdresser about what will suit the shape of your face.. and I am certain you aren't as dull or giantesque as you think you are. xxx But I am totally getting the frumpy feeling.. I am there!

    Morning!

    Yes, I will pigpen x and tbh I had been growing it so I can tie it up for holidays :o so maybe I need to practice some nice "up do's" and be thankful I haven't got smokers lines :eek:

    On a plus note, my weigh-in this morning was a happy one :D

    Kiddies fed and playing with the train set. DS has asked if we can go to the Santa train soon (local steam railway, he knows its not Santa this time of year :D) so it appears that's what we are doing for my birthday ;) it'll be just us as everyone is on holiday, but that's ok I'd rather it was "just another day".

    Throat feeling a bit funny when I swallow :cool: so squirting with chl0raseptic before it develops.

    Swimming in a couple of hours, and we might pop to shops - apparently I have no snack in the house!!!
    Bossymoo

    Away with the fairies :beer:
  • cyclingyorkie
    cyclingyorkie Posts: 4,234 Forumite
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    Dull and rainy here - typical - I am supposed to be helping at KS2 sports day today! Fingers crossed that it dries up!

    My b-i-l is doing a charity motorbike ride today (bike had to cost under £300 and be done up at home) from John o' Groats to Lands End.... it's for cancer research - I think 35 bikes are taking part. Fingers crossed that it all goes well.
    :jFlylady and proud of it:j
  • pipersky
    pipersky Posts: 954 Forumite
    edited 21 June 2013 at 8:38PM
    Monday ~ Living room, Hall and downstairs Loo
    Got an hour
    Wipe some paintwork, skirting boards, behind the toilet/sink

    Tuesday - Kitchen and Dining Room
    30 minutes to spare
    wipe out the fridge
    Got an hour
    Wipe over the oven door
    Extras
    Deal with a hotspot

    Wednesday - Master Bedroom and Landing - DONE :)

    Thursday - Bathrooms
    Only got 15 minutes
    Clean toilets and sinks
    30 minutes to spare
    Wipe the splashbacks
    Got an hour
    Clean out the plug holes
    Shine the mirrors
    Clean the bath and shower

    Friday - Children's Bedrooms or spare rooms/rooms of Doom
    Got an hour
    Wipe the skirting boards
    Wash an item of soft furnishings
    Extras
    Check dates on passports/MoTs/insurance etc
    Part time GCer, NSDer, Comper and (Bad)Flylady :o
    A big shot is just a little shot that kept shooting ...
  • mrs-moneypenny
    mrs-moneypenny Posts: 15,519 Forumite
    everything crossed that your Bil and the other bikers taking part have a good day a safe journey and raise lots of money CY. well done to him for doing such a worth while thing with his time
    SPC~12 ot 124

    In a world that has decided that it's going to lose its mind, be more kind my friend, try to Be More Kind
  • MinnieMousesMummy
    MinnieMousesMummy Posts: 1,621 Forumite
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    edited 21 June 2013 at 7:37PM
    Good morning everyone, Early start for me today as ds has a school trip to the zoo and had to be at school for 8am. I'm going to make a start on my list as dd is still sound asleep.

    Updated list:
    Monday
    1. Sweep and mop the kitchen floor
    2. Clean the kitchen walls

    Tuesday
    1. [STRIKE]Call at the chemist to collect dd's medicine[/STRIKE]
    2. Dust and deweb the living room
    3. Clean the fire place

    Wednesday
    1. HH tidy and declutter in dd's bedroom
    2. Check ebay for an idea of how much to list some items for
    3. Laundry (do 3 loads) Two loads done
    4. HH tidy and declutter in the master bedroom
    5. Change and wash dd's bedding
    6. Sort through work bag and get rid of any rubbish

    Thursday
    1. [STRIKE]Make banana bread[/STRIKE]
    2. Catch up with emails
    3. Do some course work
    4. HH tidy and declutter in the ds's bedroom
    5. HHI
    6. Take some pictures of items that are going to get listed on ebay
    7. Sort through the airing cupboard and organise
    8. Look into student finances and do a budget (sent application in so I need to ensure that it will work financially)
    9. Sort to do lists for the next 3 days
    10. Shine the bathroom mirror
    11. Get rid of empty bottles out of the bathroom

    Friday
    1. [STRIKE]Shower and get dressed, Kids up and dressed[/STRIKE]
    2. [STRIKE]School runs[/STRIKE]
    3. Sort paperwork and post letter
    4. [STRIKE]Organise diary for next month[/STRIKE]
    5. [STRIKE]Take dd to toddler group[/STRIKE]
    6. HHI
    7. [STRIKE]Laundry (3 loads)[/STRIKE]
    8. [STRIKE]Water plants[/STRIKE]
    9. [STRIKE]Feed the animals[/STRIKE]
    10. [STRIKE]Empty TD and check the airer[/STRIKE]
    11. Do some course work (6 hours)
    12. Surveys and daily work
    13. Make a start on meal plan for July
    14. Make a start on to do lists for next week
    15. [STRIKE]Check dates for mot/insurance[/STRIKE]Good job I done this one, as mot is due next week so booked in for Monday, Insurance is due next month so will look into prices next week to get an idea of cost.
    16. Make a list of things that need to go in the hospital bag
    17. [STRIKE]Spend some quality time with dd[/STRIKE]
    18. Look into childcare for when the lo comes along (dd's childminder is unable to take kids under 6 months)
    19. Sort through some paperwork and empty the box to be used as a present box
    20. Order pants and socks for dd online from Mr A
  • Jazee
    Jazee Posts: 9,454 Forumite
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    Morning all. I have finally dusted and hoovered our bedroom so although the paid stuff will be manic busy today and I won't be awake enough to do anything else later, I'm ok with that as all rooms have had some attention this week.

    Right, paid stuff. Have a good day everyone.
    Spend less now, work less later.
  • nicki_2
    nicki_2 Posts: 7,321 Forumite
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    Morning all :D

    Had enough of paid stuff this week. I can't spend another 11 hour day looking at a computer screen so I'm going to clean the house and sort out a shopping list for after school.

    I need to get the euros sorted as I need them for Wednesday. But using this site I've just discovered that Mr T is giving the best rates ATM and I can walk to it, so I'll toddle off there on Monday and run some errands while I'm out that way, just saved myself £4 in bus fare :D


    Paid Stuff:
    Accounts (EOY figures 11/12, cycles: 4/5/6/7/8/9/10/11/12/13/14/15/16/17/18/1/2/3/4)
    Sort out account format that works for me & print sheets!

    Look into POB stuff / get postcards with info printed on / recanvas using postcards

    General:
    Beds made FSS
    Washing up
    FSS
    HHProject TFSS
    HStuday TWTFSS
    Finances TFSS
    Check school website (before bed) TFSS

    Errands - HB, Charity, euros
    Ironing
    Order / collect Euros - Mr T OS. Order online, collect Mon.

    Frog list:
    Paid Stuff : Accounts / Tax return / Tax credits
    Appointments for: Opticians / Dentists
    Kitchen:
    Demould kitchen ceiling / Wash walls / Clean seals & drawers /Clean light
    Livingroom : Shredding - need a new shredder first! / Wipe gloss work down - 3 Doors, frames & skirting boards done, picture rail and all the pipe covering bit which involves getting ladders out still to go...
    Master bedroom : Sort out smoke alarms / Clean under bed
    DD's Bedroom : Put up shelves & fill with decor stuff in cupboard - need to decide on what shelves first. / Clean underbed


    Monday ~ Living room, Hall :D:D

    Tuesday - Kitchen and Dining Room
    Only got 15 minutes

    Hoover/mop the floor
    30 minutes to spare
    Clean the sink and shine the taps
    wipe out the fridge
    Got an hour
    Clean the WM filters and drawer
    Wash the window
    Extras
    Clean some shoes - always a Friday night job here.

    Wednesday - Master Bedroom and Landing
    Only got 15 minutes

    Change the bed, hoover the mattress, turn it if you can - Sunday job
    30 minutes to spare
    Hoover the stairs, landing and bedroom
    Wipe the window ledges
    Got an hour
    Dust any dusty bits
    Wipe the bedstead


    Thursday - Bathroom
    Extras
    Declultter a drawer
    Me Me Me time

    Friday - Children's Bedrooms or spare rooms/rooms of Doom
    Only got 15 minutes

    Strip, wash and replace bedding - Sunday job
    30 minutes to spare
    Hoover floor
    Got an hour
    Wipe the skirting boards
    Wash an item of soft furnishings
    Clear then dust a flat surface (or 2)
    Extras
    Find a new recipe to use << - Funnily enough I was thinking of baking stuff tomorrow for DDs lunches so this is apt :rotfl:

    Going to get the computer based stuff out the way first while I finish my coffee, then I'm cranking up the tunes and getting on with some flying properly. Might even get the ladders out and finish cleaning the paintwork in the livingroom ;) :wave:
    Creeping back in for accountability after falling off the wagon in 2016.
    Need to get back to old style in modern ways, watching the pennies and getting stuff done!
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